[Dodger]

You offer to pay them and if they say 'up to you' its because they are shy. No it does not mean that you are special, it means that they are too shy to ask, they kind of think you realise you are taking back a prostitute and that you realise this is how she makes her living and will pay her.

Consider for one minute that she needs to get money to live, to send back to family and then consider how you look now.

Negotiate the fee before leaving the bar, this will save any embarrasing or potential problems the following day, and pay the girl for her services.

One of the girls I know quite well, hardly ever asks, she likes the young men so they think they are special and do not pay her, she does this even when she cannot afford to pay her rent this month, a few bowls of rice are not enough for her to survive.

Now come into the real world and start treating the girls properly.

Whoops this comes across nasty, not meant, just was thinking if youv'e been here a month you cannot really call yourself a newbie and rely on ignorance to cheat the girls out of their livelihood!!