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Originally Posted by ChoakMyDee
Well I've got a lot to say about this topic. I've had my heart seriously broken 3 times by western women. The one thing that I can say they all had in common is they had no idea what love is. Now, when a woman tells me she loves me I head for the nearest exit...quickly. A lot of women think that love is a feeling...the feeling eventually goes away...as all infatuations do...and when there is a bit of work to be done...they run away to find that feeling again with another guy. That's my experience with western women. They go through people; or I should say that they did with me. I know it is a huge generalization but that is my experience...I find them shallow. I haven't gone near one for years...I avoid them like the plague. I actually think they are evil.
On the other hand. A Thai woman has a sense of duty that most western women don't know. Take my Thai girlfriend for example. She works a normal job. She works 12 hours a day 7 days a week. She makes ~5000 Baht a month. She sends 2000 Baht home every month to her parents. That's 40% of her miserable income that she gives to her parents out of a sense of duty and commitment. That's something I would venture to say you wouldn't see very often in the western world. I watch her at work...I'm amazed how she always has a genuine big beautiful smile for every customer who walks in the door. I say to her "You work a lot." She smiles and says "Yes, I work work work." and she giggles. She doesn't complain.
I remember the first time I visited Thailand a few years ago. My first LT BG...we are at my hotel and she is clipping my fingernails. I remember thinking WOW...I didn't even ask her...she just picked up the clippers and did my nails. It was a small thing but it meant a lot to me. For some reason western women think that doing their man's nails would be demeaning. What the hell happened to the western women? I am more feminine than a lot of the women I see in Canada but I'm not effeminate.
Another mistake I made with western women was treating them kindly and trying to establish a connection mentally spiritually emotionally and physically. I actually enjoy going to an emotional level with a woman and find them very interesting to talk to on that level. What I should have been doing was treating them badly. When western women say they are looking for a nice guy they are definitely lying. They really want someone to treat them badly...if only I had known this when I was younger. Now I can see that the "bad" guys get the girl...the good guys get ****ed and don't even get a reach around.
My Thai friend and I go for dinner every night together. We sit and eat slowly...for hours...we talk a little...then there are the long comfortable silences. She is such a pleasure to be with. It is so nice to be back in LOS.
Those are my thoughts at the moment.
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