[trekker]

It seems to me that never spending more than 3 days with a BG/FL has ALOT of merit. As as has been mentioned many times here before - It has the potential to really play on your emotions if you meet one that you are really compatible with and also having a great time with.

Having mongered many a time in Hong kong, Singapore, Thailand etc it never ceases to amaze me just how easy it is or can be for guys to fall into this minefield of emotions............... be it a newbie or some one with more than 20 "tours of duty".

Having recently spent 2 days with the same girl we were having a great time in every way and on the 3rd day i had to leave thailand as my holiday had ended but the issue that plays in my mind is that having been to LOS many times and also knowing the pitfalls of what can happen by spending a long time with one bg.......where does one draw the line.....and where could it have led to?

In my case even with heaps of experience i still saw myself potentially heading down the path of wanting to spend more time with her.......even though this could be dangerous from an emotional point of view.

Of course one could look from the positve side and say well maybe this could work out and evetually become a happy ending...........I suppose you never know unless you try.

It makes me wonder with many other Bm's and guys who have been to LOS heaps of times.............have you ever been in that situation as i have described? And if so what did you do?