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Originally Posted by trekker
....Having recently spent 2 days with the same girl we were having a great time in every way and on the 3rd day i had to leave thailand as my holiday had ended but the issue that plays in my mind is that having been to LOS many times and also knowing the pitfalls of what can happen by spending a long time with one bg.......where does one draw the line.....and where could it have led to?
In my case even with heaps of experience i still saw myself potentially heading down the path of wanting to spend more time with her....
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Yeah, can relate to this posting...we all have emotions.....I once was quoted as saying that heaps of "experience with bargirls just means you make the same old mistakes less often".
I feel the time comes when if you are a long term repeat monger you need to find a different type of bargirl - the ones that have accepted that Prince Charming is not going to ride over the hill and rescue them, the ones that know you will be back in six months and that they will still be there....and now a “regular” has turned up so they can drop the most of the BS, score a few bar fines towards the monthly quota and count on making enough baht to cover the back rent, pay back loans to the girlfriends, even send extra money home….her smile is one of relief as your approach….forget love and missing u much…this girl really IS glad to see you….ask any one on commission how they feel when a regular calls during a quiet week…
Yep, my advice is to find the right girl for someone who is a regular monger - you are not a newbie so don't shack up with a girl who wants one - my all time best regular was in Patong and was from a beer bar in Gonzo - I spent half a dozen trips with her and never had her mobile number or email and she never asked for mine. They know the score, you know the score and you both know they know it to. Enjoy.
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