Same same!
First tour! Meet a great girl. Had fun together. Stayed with her 3 days before going home to farangland... I didn't really have any plans with her. But back in farangland in the same old stress, then the memories about the good time in LOS was just too hard. So almost daily we still talked. All I could think about was when I would be back in paradise, back in LOS. The talks got more and more into "what if?", what if we could stay in this! I guess at one point I actually said the L-word. Talking about what if she could come to see me in Denmark. What about my kids? She also wanted kids, but I really had enough with the four girls I already have...
After 2,5 months I was back in LOS. It was a happy reunion. But already after 2 days with a lot of fun, I was seeing that it wasn't really her I was in love with. It was the whole idea about the paradise in LOS. And she just became more and more scary to me. And there was so many other wonderful girls still around. So I knew I had to end it again. But not easy, she had also made plans. She became really mean. And it didn't make it better that she worked in MTB (I think that's why most BM's say never to go with the girls from MTB!).
But two days after the breakup I could relax in MTB again. And not to make it better I was now together with another girl from MTB! One I had seen on my first trip, but except for buying a drink, I had not been with her before. But her beauty had completely spell blinded me!
She was very different. When I first met her, she had only been working for 2 weeks, and according to her still not been with any farangmen. The other girl had worked in the p4p scene for years. In fact I think I had loved her from when I first saw her! When I left again from LOS after another week, I had asked her to stop her work at MTB. And today we are married and live very happy together.
With my experience in mind I would say, yes if you really don't want to get into the emotional minefield, then quit after 2 days. And don't call after you come back to farangland.
But then again, if you meet someone you really like, someone you trust, someone who haven't been spoiled completly by being in the game for too long, then why not go for it? Of cause the day to day life back in farangland is very different from the happy days in LOS, but personally I'm very very happy...