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Originally Posted by cadia
Dear Ally,
This is my thinking: friends should help each other to be better. I agree that this is just one man's fault since he chose to act like a big boy. However, I thought that if there were some good advices to him from good friends, he might think more carefully about his action - he might not show up at the webcam and flirt the w-hore there.
I am sorry other members about bringing my personal problem here. Just some last thinking about my bad luck.
Best regards.
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Maybe they didnt realise that you would be watching the webcam or that you were a BM also, And you have to remember a lot of BMs go on holidays to enjoy themselves and dont really want to get caught up in other people's problems. I really cant understand what exactly was going through your boyfriends head but it was a really horrible thing to do to you.
I know its not much concilation but maybe you should count yourself lucky to have found out now while your still young rather than 10 years down the road with a family and a lot more to lose, You should just put it down to a bad experience and get out there and find someone who is worthy of your love. Take care.