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Originally Posted by tintin
I am also aware that putting some strange things on paper, might be disturbant for some, as they only see the words, not the character! The thing i heard the most in Los from Bm's , is that i was soooo diferent then they imagined. I think when you meet me, I am a happy man, very nice to people and very entousiastic!  |
Hey tintin,
I know that there is a type of men in this world who is always very nice and kind with their neighbors, their friends - even friends they just meet in street for a short moment, and the outsiders.. but they are horrible men in their family: selfish with their own people, treat their family like the hatred.. For example, he runs quickly to his friend's house to help his friend's wife wiping butt for her new kid. But he kicks stuff in his house and gets angry when his wife asks him to help. Or like someone, they can't even deal with their own problem in their family: conflicts, daughters have troubles, sons have troubles.. and they keep complaining about how stress they are, but don;t want to deal with it. But they immediately open their arms to help some strangers.
Yes, outsiders will think that "wow, he is wonderful man" because he helps other people. But your people.. do you know how they think? Except the family i told above which want to be in drama situations and complain about things, i think all other people - the insiders - will be very upset because
they see the real man in the "good-man-in-street" that they are with.
Someone told me that in the forum, all people become aggressive. NO! We are all hiding behind the monitor and we are more opened-minded about everything and hence, we tell things from deep in our heart without a limit. A reason? Well, even though you know my nickname, you still don;t know me in reality - I am still an anonymous to you. Therefore, I feel more confidence to tell you what I like, what I want, and what I hate - and you feel that way too.
Tintin, you are too proud of yourself and you forget who you truly are. Like a song Frozen: "you only see what your eyes want to see - you are frozen when your heart's not open."
With money, you will still have young bgs when you are 80 or 90.. they will still be with you because you are their ATM. But the happiness you have - is the happiness you have to pay for - not the true happiness comes from a heart.
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Give your family the love that they deserve - they are your family, not bgs in the street.