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Originally Posted by Mac
Hi Jaybee
Good post and I agree with you in general. I think that the problem in the UK is that after the third date a kind of implicit one-way contract is signed whereby you will be monogomous and she will start to take control and make you a better person. It will start with a mild rearrangement of the furniture in your home, and end with throwing out your favourite pullover that you have been happily wearing for years.
In the west sex is a tool which appears to be used to manipulate situations. It is not freely given and is "a big thing". In LOS, sex is trivial, uncomplicated and good fun. I want to have sex but I do not really want my life turned upside down for a quick bunk up and I do like that old pullover too.
I can live happily with my children and do not need a full time life partner. I like to meet up with friends and have occasional sex in the UK. But when I go to LOS I can let my hair down, not worry too much about commitment and enjoy it for what it is. A really good time.
Just my thoughts.
Mac
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Mac, Your thoughts and mine coincide very closely, although you express yourself more concisely. I'm a bit of a rambler. Same same for AD, ROBO, and IJ, more or less. Since I have children, too, the love of a woman is a little easier to do without, because I have these two who are so very close to me.
JayBee
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