First of all thankyou for the praise of my tour report and i'm happy knowing that it gave some pleasure to others reading.
I'm sure there's going to be some great reports coming though that will be even better from the guys out there from Xmas and i'm not just saying that.
Good question & a tricky subject indeed.
I certainly feel the same as Jonny on this one...there are many members on this board (many who i still haven't met) I regard many as friends and i would never try to deliberately go after ladies that they have a soft spot for.
But i am a respectful person by nature though, not everyone in life is so each to their own as well.
This is also another reason we should all butterfly as you mention thinking about what they do when you return home.
This stuff can eat away at you and yes i do speak from personal experience.
If you do find a girl you want to keep revisiting get in clear into your head that not only will she go with many other men, she may also like other men just as much or even more then you...as long as you tell yourself this is only a holiday fantasy then everything will be cool.
It has took me longer than it should have to learn and finally realise this myself but the good news is - I finally get it.
I also try to be careful in general when posting pics or naming bars and girls names as you never know if her ''long time sponsor'' may be reading or even family & friends that may now know she does this for work.
And yes there are some girls who do keep it a secret although the majority probably don't.
I personally think it's better to either post pics without naming what bar or how you met or the other way round - full report - no pics.
I dont think everyone will agree with that but it's just IMHO
I think the worst thing anyone could do is maul a well known members girl on the Mai thai webcam so try to avoid that at the very least.
