There is more than enough
BGs to go around! If a BM sees a certain pic of a girl and feels he's got to give her a go, then he bloody well ought to keep that information to himself.
There are BMs and there are BMs, so to speak, and the ones who you respect then you ought to show some respect for. That's the way I look at it.
On the other hand, post your pics, take your chances, 'cause the girls are in business and are up for grabs, so even if your friend doesn't do it, some jerk might, or some newbie who doesn't have a clue about your feelings or previous encounters. That's life.
As for me, I do develop feelings. I remember one
BG in Soi Seadragon who I'd been with four times, but never on consecutive nights because I wanted it to be clear that she was not my GF, and to maintain my butterfly status. So one night I was at her bar, but would not BF her as I had been with her the night before. She came on to me, I bought her a drink, but then moved on.
It turned into one of those nights where I made the rounds of every soi in Patong. At 2:00 AM, I was walking up Rat-U-Thit alone, headed back to Bangla from Seapearl, headed for the last round-up on Bangla, when I drop my high standards and grab the first one to catch my eye.
When here comes Gauey, laughing and swaying like she'd had one too many, and on her arm is one very happy camper who was quite obviously pleased with her and eager to get her back to his hotel. In spite of the fact that I had constantly rebuffed her efforts to be my GF, I still felts those pangs in my heart, and felt sick in my stomach when I looked at him and thought about what he was going to be doing with her in about 15 minutes.
She saw me, waved, smiled, and greeted me as they approached, and gave me a big hug when we met on the sidewalk. I could see she was happy to have a date and having a good time. He had no idea who the f*ck I was and hustled her away as soon as he could, although he was polite about it.
Walking towards Bangla alone, I felt like shit. I should've been happy for her, I told myself and in a way I was, but i wasn't happy for myself. I get attached too easy. I sure as hell didn't love her, but I had a feeling for her, a possessive feeling that makes no sense. She was a new girl and I kind of broke her in, but still that shouldn't matter.
Even today, almost 2 years later I have a warm feeling for her when I reminisce, and look at the pics of her. But love? No way, not even close. Hard to explain. I just really liked her a lot as a person, a very unique person. Maybe I'll post her pic. She doesn't even look like any other
BG I've ever seen, or any other
TG for that matter. Unique in every way.
Well, maybe from that story, you can get how I feel. And can imagine if it had been a girl that I did have strong feelings for! That would be even worse!
JayBee
