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Originally Posted by Denver
Devils Advocate again! A couple or so more questions on sponsorship from moi! With a few potential answers! I dunno, just me! 55555555
1. Why not use the sponsorship money to be with the girl or get the girl to the sponsor? - Your Job? Her Job? Both? Your already married!
2. Why spend all that money on someone you may only see for 2-4 weeks a year? - Keeping your place in the Queue? Feelgood factor? It's your kid!
3. Are you happy that the money you send is being spent on what the person says it is being spent on? - i.e. Rent a 3K Baht place until the week you are due to arrive and take on the 8K place for a month!
4. Farang are living out here on less than some sponsors send some of the girls, yet they, the girls, are still in the bars - Are you understanding of that? - "It's just a Thai girl having a bit of fun with her money?"
5. At age 20-30 - She's not getting laid for 50 weeks of the year - Again, just me..............realistic? Trust or Lust!
Interesting to hear some thoughts on some of the above, I couldn't sponsor a girl here and sleep soundly in Rochdale contented with a daily phone call and a couple of emails from her! Again, just me!
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everyone has different situations
mine is not ideal, and hope it will be soon
but the only way i would ever have done soemthing like this is really knowing the girl, which knowing her for 2 1/2 years and spending about 60% of thjose 2 1/2 years in her physical presence, i could say i think i know
as for the sex, cheating, trust aspect. doesnt worry me one bit. i dont believe she would cheat on me, but i am not overly concerned if she had a few fun nights out, to be perfectly honest with you
i am just not a jealous person, was when i was younger and immature. until i am 100% with my gf in living together, that aspect just doesnt really concern me