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Originally Posted by ub2yoo
No, you shouldn't. You are doing the right thing with the right attitude, IMO.
That's why I posted before, you are going to pay what you think it's worth paying for in your life. There's no actually number/limit, it's all too individual to set a "going rate" or anything like this on it.
Then again, what's right after a 1 week holiday meeting compared to a 4.5 years relationship? That's just too much of a question to answer, isn't it?
Anyway, I always believed everyone should carry their own portion of common sense with them and act accordingly.
If you're happy you're happy, sometimes it takes a bit of money and you get burned, so what! As long as you don't jump on the next disaster as soon as you experienced it already, I guess it's all a learning experience.
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Very well mentioned here Rob and I fully agree with your post and the conclusion you write at the end.
This is really the bottom line. Make an arrangement which make you and the lady happy. With how much that is not important.