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Originally Posted by ub2yoo
No, you shouldn't. You are doing the right thing with the right attitude, IMO.
That's why I posted before, you are going to pay what you think it's worth paying for in your life. There's no actually number/limit,
it's all too individual to set a "going rate" or anything like this on it.
Then again, what's right after a 1 week holiday meeting compared to a 4.5 years relationship? That's just too much of a question to
answer, isn't it?
Anyway, I always believed everyone should carry their own portion of common sense with them and act accordingly.
If you're happy you're happy, sometimes it takes a bit of money and you get burned, so what! As long as you don't jump on the next
disaster as soon as you experienced it already, I guess it's all a learning experience.
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funny, the point of my post, was that some girls just get sponsors who provide them, with what i think is foolish "for face" items
building a house you will never use, a car you never drive is pointless
but as you see in replies, everyone will have different opinions
for me, money spent on health insurance and education is a no brainer
the 15-20k to keep her in a suitable place to live and more than 300 baht in her pocket is something i dont think is outlandish
sure, she could work full time, but i just wont have her working at a job she cant grown as person for 200usd/mo when i spend that nightly antytime i go out for drinks. id prefer she work part time in a job that she is learning from