[Ozskin]

Hi Condo, thanks for your story. While reading it i thought i was reading about myself. Everything was exactly the same except to substitute a different girl. You did say it was a happy ending, but really it is only the start of things.

My girls (2) tourist visa's out here were some of the happiet times for me, but problems started to creep in after marriage, with increasing demands from the girl and the family. Dont expect to see anything on the radar until after you are married.

I also think the girl is testing your limits and ability to give already. You offered $400 per month which is a reasonable amount, she counters with $600 and you agree without a fight. I feel this could be setting the scene to come, which i hope is not the case. I guess its easy to be blinded by love and feelings at the beginning, and in a way that is the great thing about it.

Im not trying to rain on your parade, just excercise some caution, from someone who has been through the wringer. So anyway best of luck mate, definately follow your heart in matters, but keep an ear out for any gut feelings.

Cheers
ozskin