[LivinLOS]

It is normal in Thai society that the young pay money to the old.. They have no social security and this is the same in most 3rd world countries.

That said a Thai is unlikely to be expected to contribute nearly as much as a farang as in general Thais have a fairly structured society and you wont get a rich bangkokian marrying an issan farm girl (which many farangs do).. So you dont get rich Thais marrying poor families and paying so much so often.. Its part of the nature of the beast that poor girls are working in the bars and the guys that meet them are (to the farm girl) rich.. Theres some of the attraction and its to be expected if your having a relationship with an older guy having a young attractive thai girlfriend that part of the appeal is your financial security and that will be used to benefit the parents.

So yes it does happen in Thailand normally, its not prosititution, its how the young care for the old and 'repay' being looked after and perhaps sent to school. Its paying your parents for the sacrifices they made when bringing you up.

Now how to bar girls look on guys that send them money ?? I can promise you that 9 times out of 10 they think they are ****ing stupid. Of course there are the few 'real' relationships where the girl does love the guy and honestly quits the scene (and hence has no real support) and gets a normal job and the guy helps her live a normal life. In these few situations a more serious relationship is being (bought) formed and this does (rarely) happen.

For the rest who are sending money to working girls the amount of respect these girls show (when the guy is not there) is less than none..

TRUE EXAMPLE.. One of my female friends (never ****ed) is a lazy BG.. She is a pretty good looker and charges WAY over the odds (and gets it if she wants), she will honestly say things like 'I dont want to work **** man.. I just want many man send me money and not see them' etc.. Being a friend she uses my net connection (she is actually asleep in my spare bedroom now) for her emails etc.. I am roped into replying to the 4 - 8 guys she keeps playing the game with as she plays them all for money. She herself says 'its better to have 4 guys send me 10,000 than one send me 40k.. That way if I want to forget one its not a problem for me'.. she dont give a shit about any of them.

Literally yesterday morning.. she is laying the sob story on some italian guy by phone.. He will send her money.. It is going by western union (she dont care what the transfer fees cost).. He agrees and says its sent to the name.. Now I have been helping her spell english words on the phone but then she looks shocked and says to me.. Ask him what his name is !!! I nearly choked.. She has forgotten this guys name totally !! She says its andre / adri / adriano or something (Andre from italy if your reading and wired money yesterday.. Sorry mate) but had no idea.. The cunning little thing then waited until he confirmed he had sent it to ask !!! She can whisper sweet nothings but has no real interest in seeing him ever again, she cant even remember his name, she only wants him to take care of her and its easier than having to **** someone..