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Originally Posted by LivinLOS
Now heres the mistake..
You may have discussed it.. But she nodded and told you what you needed to hear.. all the while believing she had met her knight in shining armor who would always be there with ready cash to solve all her family woes..
Not being nasty now.. But did you really think that it wasnt so ?? Why ?? Just because your younger ?? For Thais 'love' is intimately linked with support. A failure to do one loses the other (or demonstrates you dont love her).
Sounds like you may not be in the right financial position for a Thai relationship.
She is going to do what her family tell her she must do.. Shes the girl, thats how it works, shes snagged the farang, they know the chances of it coming from you are much higher than any other source. They are far higher up her priority ladder than you.
How much have you kicked to the family so far ?? I mean you do expect to kick some sometimes right ?? You dont expect to meet a hottie in a bar, who was probably sending fairly regular small chunks back up the chain and just cut that off ?? Her ability to do that without working in a bar was one of the big motivations for her.
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but you dont think he is right to refuse such a frivilous request?
i certainly would refuse
look, Ao needed extra money to stay in a hotel while her mom gets operated on
she knew 100% the money would be there the minute she asked( i actually asked her if she needed it before she had to ask)
but she also knows there is no way in hell im paying for some bozo brother's truck
but i do think he thought it was a different dynamic because he is young but it isnt. i agree with you there