Thread: am I a fool
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Old 06-02-2005, 22:08
lysander lysander is offline
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Originally Posted by plasticsmith
I'm sure you all have more experience and understanding of Thai culture than I have. I hope someone can give me some advice to ease my mind.
In my first post on this board I asked about finding one person in Phuket that I could help by sending money to help get their life back together.
That is what I did and I felt good about it.
I'm not looking for anything in return...not even romance.
I found a young girl who lost her job and after exchanging several emails I thought her needs were genuine and I could do something to help.
I sent $500 in January...She sent email everyday that month and I got to know her quite well.
She's not a BG....I believe her.
She sent a picture of herself and ....really ...fact is she is just a plain girl...I don't think she could be a BG.
What she really wanted to do was go back to school and get a degree.
I agreed to help her do this for the next four years.

I have owned a plastic fabricating business in Canada for more than twenty years. I think I have learned to be a good judge of character and
although I'm a trusting person by nature I seldom get ripped off.
I believe this girl is genuine.
Now ...here's the problem...and I'm really worried about this.
Near the end Of January I sent a digital camera that I don't use anymore. She was really excited about it and wanted to send me a lot of pictures
of Phuket.
On the first of Feb. I wired another $500.
I haven't heard from her since!
I can track the money transfer and the Canada post delivery of the camera...they were both picked up Feb. 2nd.
I have her cell phone # . I have called several time and no one answers.

All this makes no sense...
If I am totally wrong about her and she is really a lady boy or something why would she disappear?
I would have kept sending money every month for the next four years.
I don't know what to do!
On one hand I would hate to find out that I have been tricked by someone who was just dishonest.
But what if something happened to her and I have no way of knowing.
I am really troubled by this....I can't sleep at night.
Any suggestions?


Text her saying you want to know how much more she needs, i'm sure she'll get back to you.
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