I'm in the same boat man...
Met a girl in november last year at Krit bar,she was 29, i'm 33. I butterflied around that time and of course she was angry, so we had a quarrel then. At the end of my holiday(she was still mad at me, but calmed down a bit) i told her she was the best girl i had and i would make it up to her on my next stay.Came back to Pattaya end feb this year.(she was already sms'ing me for 2 weeks, "when you come???") I have been with that girl for three weeks. She really took very very good care for me. She was so sweet, lovely, willing...We talked about meeting her parents when i would come back the next time, and even marriage.She asked if my parents would come to thailand for our marriage, and so on...She didn't even want any money the last days. She cried when i had to go home and would wait my come back.Once home, she sms'ed me every day, e-mailed me, even called me once crying. I called(info:always through skype, cheap and good!) her last week and told her that i would come pattaya in june. Normally it would be in November, but couldn't wait to see her again, so i moved heaven and earth to go sooner... A few days later she doesn't answer my sms's anymore, doesn't pick up her phone when i call,...except once, she said i have problems honey, can't explain in english, i go to internet shop tomorrow and have it translated and e-mailed to you. Never heard from her anymore since then.(4 days ago now)
I must say that she(thai lady) knows that i'm married to a (wonderful) lady of my country (we are "openminded"
), but i told her i would give up my wife for her. I wasn't actually planning to make hasty decisions though she did not know that!
I must admit i feel real bad now, especially cause she doesn't answer any of my messages. I even thought about putting a post here on the board and ask if someone is in Pattaya now and wanted to go look in her bar what's going on...
ARGHH hear me, f*cking pathetic!!!! but i can't help it!
It's just so strange, i never thought someone could play it like this.
So you see bro, you're not alone, let's both learn from it and never fall in that trap again!
WOOOW UPDATE 05/04/05:
There was an sms on my phone this morning...
" Miss you honey, love you so much, wait you all the time, hope you come soon!!!!"
I guess her "new" farang did not stay longtime in Pattaya
Now i feel real naughty...haven't answered the sms yet,was not planning to, but why not make it my game now?
Any suggestions what to do best?
Come on butterflies, let's hear it!!!!
Regards Steve
regards,
Steve