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Originally Posted by steveski
Well I’ll take the risk for ridicule and here goes,
My second last trip was my first to Phuket (not fist to Thai) and I spent the last 3 days with one girl. Not the most beautiful but I liked our time together. She went home after the Tsunami and then went back to Patong and stayed with her friends, probably doing some FL.
I did not tell her that I was coming back and you would not believe it I bump into her first afternoon in the street. She thought that I was with someone else and she just kept walking. I chased her up and said hello but did not make any plans. I was determined to butterfly this trip and did not call her. Of course she seen me with other girls and then she would get rotten drunk. I found her one night so drunk she could hardly walk. I took her back to my room put her to bed and went out drinking, did not touch her. Found out later that after she seen me with others she was getting smashed every night. On my last night of my first stay in Patong on this last trip, been home 4 days, found her smashed wandering the street again at about 4 am. Put her to bed again and left for north the next morning. Then came back to Patong again, was out with a real hottie and bumped into her on the dance floor at Thai pan.
When I was with the hottie could only think of the other girl. Next night found the old girl, made up and we spent 8 days together.
She doesn’t ask me for anything, I only gave her money for the time that I spent with her. We left Patong together and she supposedly went home. Flew to Bkk with me, then went on to home. I know that she did get there, whether she’ll stay is up to her.
I do like her but I did not make any promises and did not promise to send any money to her. If she is genuine we’ll see. As I said she isn’t the drop dead gorgeous and I do not think that it is a well polished BG but that also could be part of the ploy, I will have to wait and see.
I am in two minds as to whether I should have just spent the whole 4 weeks with her, I usually last about 2 to 3 days max with a girl before I see through them and move them on, or if by being a butterfly confirmed that it is just more than lust with this one.
I promised myself that I would not do this so in a way I will be relieved if the send me money crap starts then I can say bye bye.
Will have to wait and see, but I am very on guard after reading so many stories.
Ok hit me with your best shots,
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It's always a hard one to know whether to trust these girls but sometimes I guess you just got to use your best judgement she sounds fairly genuine and yes I think most want out of the scene.
Maybe too many people put them to the money test most of these girls have little or no education and come from poor backgrounds and if you take them out of the bar they have no income.
Also do you want the prettiest or best looking girl they are usually a pain in the **** as long as you are both happy together is what counts.
One BG told me once that she does her job for money but she does not give heart this is the difference if she genuinely likes or loves you I'm sure you will know.
Anyway good luck which ever way you decide.