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bad news which everway you look at it
THis is not just a Phuket problem, it happen every day all over the world.
Your options are very limited.
You have three choices
One :Just abandon this girl full stop
Two :Go back home and send money to maintain a child you may never see again for the next sixteen years.
Three :Go with your heart and take her home.
THis is your life and hers. You live in a country that has very good ideas of tolerance. You should not be influenced by what others think!
If your feelings are true and you are commited to this girl,(and she to u) you will both find a way round any problems concerning your work as you will both work together to solve them.
As for 24 too young, many many people are in this situation, how are you going to decide when you are old enough?
Finally, dont listen to a word anyone says on this site(including me) as you will only end up confused(sorry other BMs).THis is a decision that only you and she can make.Unfortunatly what works for one person will not work for another.Please, go talk to your parents, you are their son, they know you and will help you.If you feel you cannot talk to them, there are many qualified people in your country who are there to help you.
I am sorry that I cannot give you an answer but this is not the right place to ask this kind of question. If you want more information on what help is available please pm me.
To the other BMs, sorry if I upset anyone with the above post.I may be totally wrong but this is my interpretation of the answer needed.
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