I am one of the been there, done that guys, as you know. But I think that it would be very difficult for an American to give up the American dream, unless things had gone so awry here, that you really needed to get out. Either that, or you are one of those people who felt like he never really fit in here. I think that there are people like that, who sensed that they never really fit in, and then they go somewhere else, and have an epiphany that that is the place where they feel like they fit in, and were always meant to be there.
Obviously, that doesn't describe you. I think that someday you will end up back in the US. But, maybe not, since LOS is very addictive, and there is certainly nothing wrong with settling down with a cute TG, and making a good life for yourself there. But that would surprise me in your case!
At any rate, you are young, you have lots of time to figure out what is right for you. Enjoy! I think the main problem for you is going to be finding a woman in the US whose attitude can match that of the TGs, because when you get used to that kind of treatment, it is hard to go back to the other kind. However, I am sure that there are a few old-fashioned girls in the US, or you can always go the route of taking a TG back there, if you know she is the one for you.
I don't see you being a butterfly all your life!
JayBee
