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Ask politely
It has just occurred to me that a newbie might be wondering exactly what to say to a girl. I know the first time I went to LOS I was excited and even a little apprehensive.
Well, I expect there are many different approaches but here's how I approach it. I have a few drinks at a bar and avoid getting too friendly with any girl in particular while I am looking around. Sometimes, a girl will attach herself to you before you've had chance to make your mind up and then I personally find it difficult to send a girl away. Also, I've had a problem before where I did say no to one girl but then the one I wanted wouldn't go with me because she considered me to be the other girl's property.
When you have decided which girl you want, eye contact and a smile is often enough to bring her to you and then you can chat to her and buy her a drink. After a drink or maybe two, simply ask her if she would like to go with you to your hotel. There's no need to mention sex because that is implicit.
If she says yes you can then establish whether you want her to stay longtime (LT) which means until the morning or shorttime (ST) which generally means a couple of hours or so. Having done this you can then let her know how much you are planning to give her. I think this is better than asking how much she wants. At least if she doesn't agree to the amount you propose, you have opened the bidding at a sensible level.
It is important during the whole process to be polite and nice. The girls will be polite and nice to you and if you're not the same with them they may well reject you.
I mostly use a bar in Karon where the girls are a little gentler and often I don't even mention money and neither do they. I know what the going rate is and I just give them money in the morning.
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