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Originally Posted by nickboyuk
Hi, BG are great for a short period, but if you want a Thai girl for a longer period would n't it be better to find a Thai woman who may be more inteliigent, especially if you want to marry one. There seems to be so many Thai laidies on the dating sites on here (free ones) that don't work in bars, (Well they say they don't). So why not contact one before you go and and meet her out there.
Obviously if its only sex then the BG is fine.
I know you could meet one who said they didnt work in a bar and then you find they do, but it could be worth taking a chance.
Last year I spent a week in BKK with a very nice lady whio worked for the TV station who I met through MSN chat. Alas it didnt work out, but at least it didnt cost me a anything.lol
Are there a lot of non BG lovelys looking for their European mate.
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You say it didn't cost anything ? Was your flight and hotel free ?
I wouldn't like to guess how many on dating sites are in fact bg's but it has been said before by many on various sites that many bg's all across asia (not just thailand) use these sites to try and attract a rich, potential husband.
Some guys have even recognised ladies they paid the barfine for in the past.
Many of us just go for a good holiday and great sex with a few beers and laughs mixed in, certainly not looking to marry.
Have you any idea of the complexities that can be involved when trying to meet and marry a woman in this way ? A woman whose background and culture is so very different to your own ? It ain't an easy thing to do..trust me.
There are marriage agency's all over BKK for the purpose of thai/western marriages but this issue is far deeper than you may realise. Many thai's find it very difficult to live in another country for example.
To say they ''may be more intelligent'' suggests that you have no idea about the life of a bg and what her IQ may or not be.
The majority may not have great educations due to lack of good schools etc..but many are very intelltigent in more ways that you imagine.
I would also be confident in saying they often earn more in a week (on average) than the lady at the TV company earns in a month. It may not be a respectable job like the TV company but it pays much better. Some ladies even have several western men sending money to thier bank accounts monthly, you say that may not be smart ? Go figure ?
Why exactly did your msn meeting not work out ? I'm curious