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Originally Posted by Bafana
honestly, the best investment (note I did not use payment) any one can put into sex is emotion, because it’s what it’s all about in the first place.
it’s biological to be attracted to providers with the capability to provide, but it’s more then that, what matters is the generosity of spirit that is revealed.
Honestly, the whole idea of labeling someone as cheap is just extremely antiquated, and completely callous.
Men who do it are prone to rape, and not necessarily the sort that’s not condoned by the law. They are those that go, ‘She’s a cheap slut, lets just **** her’. They clearly lack maturity, and obviously do not get laid enough.
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That was a f*cking awesome rant. I love the way that girl thinks. Her mind is f*cking beautiful!! Her words are sexier than a bar full of gogo girls.
The part about putting emotion into sex, and the generosity of spirit involved in that is something that I could not agree more with.
The statement that it is biological to be attracted to providers with the capability to provide is an insight that so many people, women and men, just don't get, when they say a BG can't be attracted to a much older man. I believe that she is right, not in the case of every BG, but in the case of many. The women who say, "Oh, that is so disgusting to see a young lady with that dirty old man, who is old as (or older than) her father," they don't get what she is saying. And a lot of the young men say the same thing, because they don't want to believe that a young woman could prefer an older man to them. But I think she is one smart lady, who knows the score, and is not afraid to speak the truth, even though it is very politically incorrect.
The part about labeling girls (wh*res or otherwise) as cheap, and the statement that the attitude that "they are just cheap sluts," ( "f*ck and forget 'em" attitude) is tantamount to spiritual rape, even though it is not technically rape, is a very keen insight, which goes right to the core of farang/BG interactions, but is applicable also to man/woman relationships everywhere.
Like a full round tone from a silver flute, echoing through a vast temple, her words ring with the sound of truth!
JayBee
