Richie,
No this one has never asked me for anything to be honest. I did send some money after the Tsunami so that she could go home. She did not ask for anything, she was a mess after I finally got her on the phone just crying and saying that she wanted to go home to her mum.
I seen her last trip (March) and only payed her for the time I spent with her.
I got a bit angry over something so I just stopped corresponding and she sent me the odd message but was no hassle.
I did not hear from her for a while and then I found out from her brother inlaw in the UK that her mum had an accident on her motor cycle but my TG did not want to tell me due to all of the mother sick in hospital stories, so I was not told and was not asked for anything form this accident.
So we started contact again and it was actually me who suggested that she learn English as her English is very limited and not being face to face it is extremely difficult for us to communicate on the phone. My Thai is very limited not at conversation level.
Diz,
Thanks mate, here sister in UK has since been in contact with me and I talked to my TG tonight and found out what supposedly happened. I got a sms from the sister that night telling me but I just ignored it. As my TG can not write English when ever she chats or emails some one else does the typing for her in the shop, she was on chat when I was asked for 40,000. She said she told the girl 14,000 for both English and computer 7,000 each but the girl told her that farang can afford big money and put the 40,000. She said she told the girl no but she put 40,000 anyway. I have wrote in other threads about this happening before. I did not answer the request on chat and I guess that I was a bit cold on chat. I did not communicate with her after this as I thought that I was being stitched up.
Considering the situation I may have over reacted. I have had problems before with the girls in the internet shop writing what they think without asking the girl exactly what to write. I am torn between feeling a bit foolish as in have I overreacted, or have they tried something on and then made a lot of excuses when I didn’t play the game and am I just being setup for a smaller amount. It is so bloody hard to know when you are not there!
I do think this one wants out of the game and I do think that she is reasonably genuine. When she talked to me tonight she said she wasn’t after money and forget the computer side and only send her enough for the English so that we can communicate or if I could not afford this don’t worry as she just did not want my money.
Will see how it goes, farg I am really confused at the moment so I will give it some time to think it over.
Thanks for the input all.
