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Originally Posted by happyboy
With all the temptation out in LOS is it really really possible to be with one TG/BG and be tempted to stray even once???????
I know for me that unless I was totally in Love BIGTIME I think the temptation to have a quick one would become to much with another girl. Even if it was for an hour and totally meaningless I don't think I could last.
I wonder how many other BM's have fallen to the temptation over the years?
I think it is a very strong willed man that can rise above all this
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I've been struggling how to answer this post. I keep coming back to the thread, to see if someone has come up with some magic words to address it. I haven't seen these words yet, or saying it differently, ... if the words have been posted by some of the other great posters to this thread, they are presented in a simple manner, with a very deep meaning that requires thought.
I've been married for over 4 years now to a TG. Since we currently live in Europe, I finally decided I can't answer your question properly, as we don't live in LOS, and hence I don't have the same level of temptation thrown at me here in Europe, as I might have in the LOS.
Having stated that, I do know on our lengthy vacations that we take in Thailand every year, the temptation you refer to must be there. Thus far our marriage is intact, and I don't consider myself that strong willed.
A lot depends on what one wants to experience in life. If one has been married, and the burn marks now has one on a path of "single man's" path to enjoyment and fullfillment, then I think that is great.
Have a fun time! (and post your stories)!
But if one meets any women (Thai or other nationality), and the chemistry, the conversations, the fun, and a host of other things are right, then I think a way of continuing that enjoyment is something everyone should consider. That could mean a path toward marriage. I honestly believe that just because one lives in Thailand, where temptations abound, should not by itself be a show stopper to a new chapter in one's life. If one truely finds a female mate, where the love is mutual, and the love is very strong, it would be unfortunate to turn away, because of a worry that the LOS temptations was going to make a life together impossible. Perhaps the key words are a "very strong mutual love".
But I confess my view can't be objective, as I am posting as a married man.
An interesting thread. Thanks for starting it. But I'm not sure there is any answer to your question, other than trial, time, and experiences.