well with my old ex missus i used to use the scuba diving as my reason to go out as often as i do(she hated scuba diving) ,i also used the the white water rafting that was another good one (she hated most water sprots )and my favorite was because i love the place the wild life (meaning elephants im a big fan of elephants),to learn how to cook thai food,to learn the cultre and language and to see the sights.
needless to say after three visits it didnt start to wash,but hey we were well on our way to spliting up by then so i didnt care.
So im soooo looking forward to my sixth or is it seventh visit with the rest of us christmas mongers
i just hope my present falang chick never finds this web site now
:p