There is nothing wrong with anybody wanting to look like whatever they want, IMHO.
It is wrong if a LB tries to deceive you into thinking that she is a man.
The post-op LB is kind of a gray area. Because most of the post-ops in LOS ar totally convince that they are now a real woman, and you will not be able to convince them otherwise. So when they tell you that they are not a LB, then, in their world, they are not lying or, at the very least, are not aware that they are lying. Besides, if you can't tell the difference, then what you don't know, won't hurt you.
Dave, what you need to is to work on developing your LBR (ladyboy radar), and attaching an LBA(ladyboy alarm) to it. Seriously, once you get the hang of it, it is very hard to be fooled. For instance, in the pic you posted, that is definitely a very beautiful person, be it girl or boy. And one that only a very state-of-the-art LBR would pick up the correct signal. However, there is something about the shape of her head, especially the eye sockets, and forehead, and a little bit the nose, that trips my LBA.
What makes her harder to spot than most is the chin which really does llok like a girl's, and not a LB's IMHO. So, while I can usually spot them right off, with that one, I think that I would have to go in for a closer inspection, and possibly ask some questions. Even if they lie when asked about it, you get to know what the typical response from a lying LB is, as opposed to the response that a real girl will give you.
Whe I was still fairly new to all this stuff, I did pick up a LB and had some problems with her. But I realize now that, even then, my LB radar was giving very loud signals. I asked and she lied. I was not experienced enough to know that she was lying. So I chose to ignore the signals and believe her, because she was so f*cking beautiful that I really wanted her to be a wooman. But wishful thinking does not work!!!
The bottom line is that when you have been around, you can tell 95% of the time. The other 5% of the time, you will get at least mild signals from your LBR. Then you just have to tell her to drop trousers/lift skirt and check it out. In half of those cases, you will find that it really is a girl, because there are some very pretty girls out there who have problems with LBAs, and set them off. Even radar is not 100% accurate. Occasionally it glitches, malfunctions or picks up false signals. And when a real girl sets off the LBA, she will usually be understanding about your concern, because you won't have been the first one whose LBA has been tripped by her.
JayBee
