Interesting story, Nid Noy!!
I can really relate to several aspects: 1)being accused of cheating when you didn't! They sure can get jealous over nothing, and won't believe anything you say! Really crazy stuff!
2)Being an American sure is a drawback when you sould like to bring a girl to the US. If she is a BG, it pretty much requires a "fiance" visa, and marriage is not a subject to bring up lightly with a TG! I am so jealous of these Euro guys who can just bring back a girl for a few months whenever they feel like doing so.
3) BKK girls always want to get out of the city and for some reason, they suggest Pattaya! Happened to me twice! Weird! If I was a woman, that is the last place in the world I would want to bring a BF.
But, back to your story. If you really want to get serious with the girl, go for it. Be perseverant and get her into the US, see how it goes!
I happen to live in Marin County. If there is anyplace in the US, that a BG from BKK would like, then I think it is SF or the East Bay(the East Bay is warmer), because there are loads of Thais here that she could hook up with and not feel isolated from her culture and her people. She may be surprised to find out that she really likes it here. I go to the Thai Wat(Buddhist temple) in Bekeley on Sundays. There are lots of Thai people there and they really have a strong community! I have met several guys there who have Thai GFs, and some ladies with Thai BFs, also. It is a little slice of LOS in the East Bay. On Sunday, the outdoor restaurant they set up there makes you feel like you are back in BKK!!
As far as Phuket, it is great and all. It is just a question of whether you want to spend 95% of your life alone in SF, for the 5% of fantasy life of sleeping with the everchanging parade of BGs, or whether you think that you could be happy with one girl. That really is a question that gets down to 1)who you are and what really makes you happy, and 2)how much do you love her? Only you can answer those questions!!
JayBee
