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Originally Posted by magnusvv
domi,
I'm sorry to hear about what happened there. Its such a difficult thing to deal with the cultural difference where money and love are so intertwined with the thais.
But they would not accept her taking on a second boyfriend just to make up for a financial loss (since she was not a bg that is). What she did was wrong, regardless of the culture.
Good luck to you. Don't let it get you too down, there are many people that are truly jai dee (kindhearted) out there. We just have to take our chances in order find them.
Better that you learn this now rather than later, too bad you did not find out sooner though. Although it did sound like it was good while it lasted.
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I agree, let us not forget that no matter what the circumstance relationships can and most often are a big puzzle, why does one go one way and the next another....because its people your dealing with.
I have to admit I find that I question my relationships much less now that I am older. I found that holding on tightly always ends badly, its all about balance with me.
The answers lie somewhere in between here and there, which means there is no real answer at all. It is one of those things just is the way that it is and to me accepting the facts as they are make it a little easier to go from day to day....No one knows the outcome so taking a chance is the only way to find out what will be...if you are so inclined to try your hand at finding the "one".
My personal views are that the notion of there being a "one" is only a myth and nothing more. Maybe there is the "one" that I let get closer than the others in my heart, but life goes on and so we continue our search.
Women are one of the most facinating creatures on earth, I think the most interesting people I have met have been women. I've met women who have survived some incredible events and dealt with more tragic milestones than most men could indure....No wonder we spend most of our lives chasing them around the world...isn't life grand.
Best of luck to the heros and fools of this world who still believe in love.