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These girls are capable of love, just like many of us are. I believe the fact that they need certain monetary value as a collateral to prove our affection to them is simply the only way they recognize that our feelings toward them are sincere, so that they could distinguish a “customer” from a “potential boyfriend”.
Money to them is extremely important, even when they say it’s not, and I think they use it to evaluate and measure most relationships with the opposite sex, especially a farang. From their perspective they need some sort of guarantee from us, and if we could not provide at least a minimum of guarantee, they would feel that they have no choice but to find the next man who could provide that guarantee.
Certainly there are many girls who are playing the field, just like the men they encounter, going from one to the next, which are not that much different. Nonetheless I think there are also many girls who had really fell for a guy, and yet because of our difference in approaching the relationship, to establish a mutual trust becomes extremely difficult.
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