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Rat's *rse
Well, here is my take on it.
As you get older you learn a lot of lessons but for me the most important one is that "every day is a good day, some are just better than others"
Been married a couple of times, have great kids that totally support me and 1 ex-wife that I am good friends with plus one I hate with a passion.
I really love my Teerak but if it all turns to sh1t I'll just go fishing again. You need to have other interests and goals in your life.
If you base everything around your girlfriend/wife you will be devasted if it goes pear shaped. You will probably never trust her 100% either. I think LIL has a great attitude and I admire his outlook on life. However, a lot of us older guys are looking for a bit more in a relationship but bear in mind that there are other things in life that makes it worthwhile. Friends, family, work, hobbies, helping others etc. Just having a piece of candy on your arm is ok for a while but there are a lot of hours in the day to fill in.
Steve.
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