I have the same problem at the moment.
My ex who I finished with 6 months ago still calls me & mails me every week.
I don't call or mail her whatsoever.
Now she's down to begging me to be just her friend . As long as I keep in touch with her she said she'll be happy. "I don't think so"
I know that if I bump into her while I'm with my current gf. there will be a big problem. My current gf. said if my ex insults her or me, she will stick a knife in her, and I know she's not just threatening. ( she always carries a knife in her bag )
When I was there 2 months ago, she called her sister and made arrangements for her to bail her out if/when she was arrested. Luckily I managed to keep them away from each other.
This means that when I arrive this saturday, I will spend 3 weeks trying to avoid the ex. This means keeping away from most of the Bangla area.
Looks like I maybe spending a bit of time in Geirs bar at the other end of Beach Rd.
