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I had something very similar with a Rio girl. A gim teacher in Maracana gim complex. After a couple of months chating and speaking by telephone I went to know her and, by the way, to know the city. She was pretty and lovely, and I was in the heaven. No sex first days, walk along Copacabana, shopping ... marvellous. I was a week and it was enought to notice something I want to tell you. I was a "life-guard" in her life. And I make a question. If you are in troubles and you need a life-guard, do you love him or do you need him? I think the answer is NEED better than love.
In my case, the girl was beautiful, nice, and a good person, but I can't love a person who doesn't love me, only need my help for her and for her family. She spoke about marriage and I'm sure she would be a good person but I want as wife a woman who loves me. Some months later a finish with her but I was in love with Brazil. Now I have a brazilian girlfriend and a little company there.
My advice is, DON'T give any money, don't be her economical solution, even it can be hard for you because it is very easy for us give 1.000 $ to a good family to buy food, medicines ... DON'T mix love and money. This is the only way to know if she loves you.
I hope this girl will love you.
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