Bugger I did not mean to start WW3.
Burg, if you look at my title in the update it is Whose a cumb dunt, if you swap the c and d that is how I felt.
Yep it wasn’t the most clever move and yes I was aware that I could cop some LIGHT hearted flack and I don’t mind as I like a laugh and yes some times it is at my own expense, and the others who post their errors in judgement. I went into it with my eyes open and if it did not go the way I wanted such is life. I don’t think she is a rip off heartless BG, I just think that she isn’t that clever and she has shat in her own nest. I see it as her loss and a lesson to me, not cheap but if some of the figures on this forum are to be believed my amount was a drop in the bucket.
It is not such a big deal, yeah 14,000 is 14 LT I know I don’t need any one else to tell me that. Live and learn.
The thing that I like about this board is that people are prepared to put information out at expense to their possible embarrassment, so that others, especially new people can be aware of the pitfalls and if my embarrassment saves some one else from making a similar mistake then it is worth it for me. I can live with being slammed on the forum.
Although nearly all responses were oh well bad luck, at least you tried. I didn’t want any ones sympathy. I am really happy when I do get the positive posts that things are going well for some couples. So the good ones do exist .I am just now more convinced, that for me I will wait until I move to Thai to live and not have anything to permanent before that. May decide that I don’t want anything permanent when I am living there, I don’t know.
To my knowledge I have not met you so I do not know if you are normally jovial or not. If the majority of the people on this forum are too far below your intellect why read and comment? If the average punter’s intellect angers you why bother? Your opinions do not bother me I read the threads and personally like to see both sides or opinions. This helps for a balanced outlook on a subject.
Yes for the people who live in LOS it may seem that us terry the tourists seem to make some fundamental farg ups, but you have the luxury of being there day in and day out, good luck to you, I envy you guys that are lucky enough to live there, and some pass on some valuable to wisdom to us who only visit. We pop in and try and make the magic extend a bit after we leave, that is where I go wrong any way. I wasn’t only looking for something to bang the crap of while I was there. But after yet another lesson I will be far less likely to let them under my skin. Every day is a school day, always learning.
Have a good Friday night and weekend all.
