[Dodger]

Diz a lot of us including you have been there seen it done it but still have the girlfriend thought. Seeing a sms, mail message, picture on the forum of gf with another bm is reality smacking us in the face, a reality that we know but can sometimes put to the back of our minds. My thoughts are now simply, the girl wasn't a virgin when I met her, she is in patong and can easily be tempted for quick 1000 baht so just accept it. When I live there different story but unfortunately seems to still happen.

I am sure you know all this and understand sometimes the reality smack catches us off guard. If you like her, accept it, see her again and have a great time while you are there with her. I suppose I would perhaps have a different attitude if I was sponsoring but then I never do or will do and the reasons above are why I don't.