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Talk to your doc
Im 50+ now and have no problems if Im feeling relaxed. My Thai girlfriend likes to make out whenever the mood takes her. I swear our car has seen more action than our bed. Car parks, country lanes, you name it. This used to freak me out and getting it up was a problem. Any suggestion that someone might be approaching and stiffy was gone!
Nowdays Im a lot more laid back (pun not intended honestly) so my biological compass points in the right direction every time.
OK, now my point (no pun again, honest): During my 40's I was getting problems. Maybe two out of three attempts and nothing seemed to happen. Very frustrating because she is one angel and getting inside her is a trip to paradise.
Id considered 'enhancements' but decided against it until the failure rate was 100% for several weeks. It hasnt happened yet.
I dont know why things are better now except that I stopped worrying about it and got more comfortable with myself.....helped in no small way by the realisation that she loved me despite the failures. It was being done for mutual pleasure alone and not an attempt to 'prove' myself.
I know this hasnt much to do with the question. Just a note to say that 'not getting it up' isnt always a permenant problem.
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