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have been there with this one so i feel somewhat qualified to talk on the matter
it can work- my thai gf was only a few months into the bar scene and she hated it but had to earn money to support her family like most newish bgs do i came along and we clicked straight away -i was actually with someone esle wen we got together and she made it obvious she liked me.
she didnt even want paying she was just happy to be with me- i did of course give her money.
and i aint an adonis or a real handsome man lol.
she is hopefully coming over here once i sort all the visa stuff out- next week by the way and we talk on the phone all the time.
one word of caution - 20,000 a month??????
that is a lot- the average thai monthly wage is probably no more than 5,000bht
i myself send my tg 8,000bht every 8 weeks or so and i know she is back in her village and not back in the bar scene and that is wat you have to beware of.
you say that she hasnt particularly said she wants out of the bar scene and she has been on the bar circuit about 5 years so your spidey sense should tingle there. a lot of thai girls are experts at manipulating out farang emotions to suit their needs.
if she truly loves you then go for it. there are girls out there that want to find a farang to settle down with and be happy for their own reasons mind..
good luck with it but keep an open mind and a sensible head on .
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