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17-03-2007, 15:08
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I got too many girls, need 1 - 3 guys. Help me.
Hello,
I was in thai hiphop disco yesterday (no one falang except me) and found some nice girl. She was very friendly, but the problem is, that she was with 3 another girls there and she wanted to spend the evening with them. So I had only the choice to stay with 4 girls or nothing. Its not so funny as talking 1:1 with girl and its also expensive to pay drinks for 4 girls (or its stupid to let them pay for themselves). This is why I am looking for 1 - 3 guys, about 25 - 35 years, in Bangkok, who would like to go there with me tonight or next time. There are many girls like this, mostly 4 or more, looking for some group of thai guys to spend evening with them. But if they speak english, they will also talk with falang. Its stupid to go there alone, bcs the girls want to stay together. There are only good girls, dont expect one night stand just for money. Everything is possible, no garanty for anything. Its much more funny and exciting than just pay for some gogo girl and get her boring service. And the girls look much better than anything you can find in Sukhumvit or Nana. If you are interested, just send me email. No drunk buffalos with shorts, sandals, T-shirts and rude behavior, please. 
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17-03-2007, 15:19
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the gogo girls ive picked in bkk have been a lot of things...but boring isnt one of them! maybe ive just been lucky. when im at home in london i'd prob end up doing on a night out what you are describing..not expecting a one night stand. when im in thailand i usually go for the sure thing! anyway..good luck with your night.
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17-03-2007, 15:26
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She wanted to stay with her friends , and they were looking for Thai guys...........could it be they were giving out strong hints that they were not interested in you (falang) , but were willing to talk to you as you were the one paying for all the drinks. 
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17-03-2007, 15:28
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oooh you cynic..55555! but i think you are probably right!
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17-03-2007, 16:11
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Spot on, FT
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17-03-2007, 16:21
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Why go to a nightclub in Bangkok, chat to girls, buy them drinks in the hope you might be lucky and get laid.
I mean...........  Are you sure this isn't about ego!!!
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17-03-2007, 18:37
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Where did he say he was just going there in the hope of getting laid???? Perhaps he just wanted to go somewhere where the girls weren't all h00kers.....
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17-03-2007, 18:43
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if anyone knows where this place is..please tell me. i want to avoid it!
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17-03-2007, 18:52
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Not everyone needs or wants a sure thing every night. There is a different appeal to regular BKK girls than go-go girls. Each group has their own upside. If a guy wants to put in some work and wooing to get these regular girls, then what is wrong with that? Sometimes the chase, when the outcome is uncertain, is most of the fun.
Faulty, your editing really change the meaning of what he is saying. Speaking from experience, this isn't at all a bush-off. If they are at a Thai place, odds are they initially are out looking to meet Thai guys. As ThomasBerlin points out, if they are comfortable with speaking English, they may change targets to a farang. Again part of the fun IMO. Paying for the girls drinks is also par for the course. It's what a thai guy would do. ThomasBerlin, good luck. Not sure if you'll find anyone on this mainly Phuket board. Just get a bottle and keep the good times flowing. I'm sure you'll find some friendly thai guys at the next table that will be more than happy to act as wing man for you. Just start cheersing to nearby people. Find out who the her friends are interested in and get those guys over talking. Let the thai dudes run interference so you can focus on working your girl. Having been in this situation, helping to get her friends set-up makes you more appealing to the girl you're after. Like you are taking care all around. ThomasBerlin, glad you are taking a different approach to a BKK visit. Would like to hear more later.  BTW, Guessing you were in the RCA area?
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17-03-2007, 18:58
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i agree. just personally, i do that shiit all year at home. in thailand i love the sure thing! lazy? you better believe it!
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17-03-2007, 19:02
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That's would have been my guess as well, but even 25-35 is pushing the age limit there, no?
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17-03-2007, 21:37
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Sorry ThomasBerlin, but I think FaultyTowers has summed up the situation perfectly!
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17-03-2007, 23:12
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Never said there was anything wrong with what he was doing , but still feel that even with the editing , the situation was quite plain . Reading some of the OP's previous posts , regards chat-rooms , it seems he is after a 'girl friend' rather than a BG. So , perhaps if he has the time and patience , he will find what he is looking for. Can't see him getting too many other falangs (on holiday) who would be willing to take this approach.
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18-03-2007, 00:59
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I know on my holiday last month, that is exactly what I wanted to do. I had a buddy flake out on meeting me in BKK, so I ended up just like the OP. I wish I knew more Thai, as I would be ok picking up a girl, but it always helps to have a buddy. If nothing panned out before 2 AM, I would of course head to the "round-up" at Nana. If I was there now I would be with you ThomasBerlin.
Chok dee, Kodiak570
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18-03-2007, 05:31
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Brilliant...............Time for bed said Zebedeee...................FT, when are you next out here?
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18-03-2007, 09:15
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Thanks for your post, ATMwalking. Maybe I will try it, but its not easy, sometimes thai guys are friendly, sometimes they see falang in their place as competitor, it depends on situation.
For all the other guys - if you prefer gogo girls, stay with them, there is nothing wrong. I also enjoy gogo bars sometimes, but it would be boring for me to go only there. There are much more possibilities in Thailand, like internet, thai discos or karaoke. If somebody writes here, I shouldnt pay drinks for the girl, maybe I should wait for her to pay my drinks? Thai guys also pay drinks for their girls.
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18-03-2007, 10:08
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Or even advisable as the rules of conduct are different. Once saw some idiot tourists being arrested for grabbing a girls ass at Gor Tor Mor in Phuket Town. Guess they were thinking it's all the same as Bangla. georgelondon, understand what what your saying. Agree with kodiak570 on the naughty girl fall-back plan. Quote:
Depending WHERE you are taking about, doubt they would see you as competition. The guys may have lots of money to spend and speak the language. You're the underdog. But being the only farang face in the crowd makes you look fearless which is something they respect and could warm them up a little.
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18-03-2007, 11:28
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Easy..stay at home!!
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18-03-2007, 11:34
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Exactly. This is why I cannot tell you the location here. If there would be more than 5 falangs, the situation would change rapidly. The guys would see it as competition, the girls would feel like falang is looking for cheap sex there. If there are 2 or 3 falangs, respecting their rules, they see it as curiosity, something interesting, the guys drink with us and girls talk with us. But everybody kann find similar places anywhere, there is no reason to give you the name here. Only for those seriously interested, I can take them with me, maximum 2 or 3 guys.
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18-03-2007, 12:41
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will be intresting to see how it works out for you thomas. please post a mini trip report after your night out.
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