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Old 21-04-2008, 07:12
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Hey Fellas,

Why do I get emotional with chicks in LOS, even though I pay for it...

Any of you guys in the same boat???

Forty-five days before my next trip to LOS.

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Old 21-04-2008, 13:04
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Old 21-04-2008, 15:37
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Hey Fellas,

Why do I get emotional with chicks in LOS, even though I pay for it...

Any of you guys in the same boat???

Forty-five days before my next trip to LOS.

Cheers

UQL

Because these girls are pro's! Or sometimes actually because they are not!

If you don't like to get emotional with them, then you should stick to some of the advise from the other BM's here. Don't stay with one girl more than two nights! And then get on to the next one...
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Old 21-04-2008, 16:37
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If you don't like to get emotional with them, then you should stick to some of the advise from the other BM's here. Don't stay with one girl more than two nights! And then get on to the next one...

Fair advice, but it is hard work! I still butterfly and it's rare for me to see one girl more than once............I think the 'Lurker' is the only one I have seen on and off for more than a year now. Maybe once a month, if that!

If that's the game you want to play then do it, but sometimes it hurts and makes life a bit difficult when you have seen every girl in one particular bar and have them all looking at you as a customer each time you walk in.

Up to you as they say. Viva la differance!
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only a plank of wood wouldn't get emotional about some these gals....they have such a great sense of fun (sanuk)....that's why we all keep coming back!!!
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only a plank of wood wouldn't get emotional about some these gals....they have such a great sense of fun (sanuk)....that's why we all keep coming back!!!

well said, I am getting in trouble regularly. So force myself to change the place regularly. 3-4 days BKK, then Ko Samui, then Phuket. Just to break free
.... still sometimes ending up taking one along with me making things really bad.
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Old 22-04-2008, 11:39
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Hey Fellas,

Why do I get emotional with chicks in LOS, even though I pay for it...

Any of you guys in the same boat???

Forty-five days before my next trip to LOS.

Cheers

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Nothing wrong with a good gfe, enjoy it and don't make any promise you can't come through with.
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Ask yourself a couple of questions:

1. Do you get "emotional" with girls in your or other countries?
2. Do you have an abnormal inclination to be with only Thai/Asian women?

If the answer is no to both, then you are getting "emotional" about a concept or idea only...
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Old 22-04-2008, 19:20
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Ask yourself a couple of questions:

1. Do you get "emotional" with girls in your or other countries?
2. Do you have an abnormal inclination to be with only Thai/Asian women?

If the answer is no to both, then you are getting "emotional" about a concept or idea only...

What’s the diagnosis if yes for question 2
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Ask yourself a couple of questions:

1. Do you get "emotional" with girls in your or other countries?
2. Do you have an abnormal inclination to be with only Thai/Asian women?

If the answer is no to both, then you are getting "emotional" about a concept or idea only...

What's the diagnosis if YES for question Nr 1...
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What’s the diagnosis if yes for question 2

Just being an amateur psycologist here... But I think if yes for question Nr 2 the then we're fukced and it's not about an idea or concept. If yes for question Nr 1 then we're really fukced coz it could happen/ will happen with any girl... But we better wait for Dr TanMan to give the diagnosis 5555
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l get very emotional with them.......then when the moment happens......l just wanna shower and go shoot some pool with me pals.
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What’s the diagnosis if yes for question 2

Try to get to know some other kinds of women, there are a lot out there by the way... 3 billion, and most are overage...

Latinas may be a good substitute if all you want is the GFE...
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Old 22-04-2008, 20:38
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Ah... get some balls???
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Old 22-04-2008, 20:43
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My first post was designed for the OP. Maybe, he is confusing the GFE with the real thing. Personally, I couldn't tell the difference. But, to me it seemed at the time that he was equating a vacation experience with actually living where he like to go.. It's not the same.. That's why I proffered that maybe he didn't get "emotional" with the girl, he got "emotional" with the concept of being on vacation for a lifetime. It just won't happen....
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Old 23-04-2008, 04:52
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l get very emotional with them.......then when the moment happens......l just wanna shower and go shoot some pool with me pals.

Hahahahaha!!!

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Old 23-04-2008, 06:07
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they have such a great sense of fun (sanuk)....that's why we all keep coming.

I second that Nels.
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Old 23-04-2008, 08:22
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Try to get to know some other kinds of women, there are a lot out there by the way... 3 billion, and most are overage...

Latinas may be a good substitute if all you want is the GFE...

Nah thanks I'm happy with Asian / Thai woman. I dont think I have a problem and as Mav put it the emotional attachment only lasts a little while. and in response to latino, yep most of us are fukced up anyway
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Ah... get some balls???

Ok... Sounds a bit extreme but you're the doc 555555 now where do I get an extra pair and most important, where do I put them
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It nearly brings me to tears when I have to get the LBFM out of the loom in the morning. I get so emotional that I just have to go out again that night and get another root de jeur.
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It's happened to me before and I'm sure it will happen again.5555555555

I'm a major butterfly,more so in Pattaya than Phuket,but for me it's nice to be all luved up every once in a while.Good for my soul I figure even with it's ups and downs.

In the end I know that deep down I am a butterfly and probably always will be,so that knowledge helps me keep things in perspective when it's time to say goodbye.
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he got "emotional" with the concept of being on vacation for a lifetime. It just won't happen....
And, er...., you've been "on vacation" for how long now? Just asking.
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