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Old 21-06-2005, 14:58
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Settling down with a TG/BG in LOS - Can it be done?

With all the temptation out in LOS is it really really possible to be with one TG/BG and be tempted to stray even once???????

I know for me that unless I was totally in Love BIGTIME I think the temptation to have a quick one would become to much with another girl. Even if it was for an hour and totally meaningless I don't think I could last.

I wonder how many other BM's have fallen to the temptation over the years?

I think it is a very strong willed man that can rise above all this
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Old 21-06-2005, 16:27
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With wifey 1 I never strayed.. Not once.. Had the best woman I ever saw at home so why risk losing her..

With current GF's not only do I stray but I do it at home and sometimes in front of the poor girl.. She wont join in the group games !!!
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Old 22-06-2005, 07:23
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With wifey 1 I never strayed.. Not once.. Had the best woman I ever saw at home so why risk losing her..

That's where I'm at today.
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Old 22-06-2005, 07:52
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Stray once and be sorry forever Dude!

One thing that a Thai dislikes to the extreme is dishonesty...so if you plan to butterfly even once dont even think of settling down, ok? The Thai telegraph is the most effective communications in the world and she will find out sooner or later (sooner probably) that you cheated her, and then I am thinking you will be sorry beyond belief.
Besides Dude, one Thai woman is more than most Farangs can handle anyway and you dont need more. But of course if you cant eat just one its your package that will suffer.
LIke that nice man said, once you go Thai you aint going back...no white woman or other race can compare to the passion in a Thai womans heart and body just waiting for you...Think clearly before ****ing up ok???
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Old 22-06-2005, 17:22
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One thing that a Thai dislikes to the extreme is dishonesty...so if you plan to butterfly even once dont even think of settling down, ok? The Thai telegraph is the most effective communications in the world and she will find out sooner or later (sooner probably) that you cheated her, and then I am thinking you will be sorry beyond belief.
Besides Dude, one Thai woman is more than most Farangs can handle anyway and you dont need more. But of course if you cant eat just one its your package that will suffer.
LIke that nice man said, once you go Thai you aint going back...no white woman or other race can compare to the passion in a Thai womans heart and body just waiting for you...Think clearly before ****ing up ok???

Isnt it funny that they hate dishonesty when they are even worse for it, Double standards or what..55555..

By the way, I went Thai and still love farang chicks, Variety is the spice of life
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Old 22-06-2005, 18:14
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I disagree with the above.. Thais accept dishonesty in almost every form of encounter (business / love / frinds / etc) all due to face.. Partial truths, not saying what they really think or feel, etc etc..

Understanding when truth or face is most important is a constant confusion..
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Old 22-06-2005, 21:43
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if i was to settle down, say in phuket, i would have to make trips to pattaya, bkk, philipines. i am a complete ornball, and when im in se asia, it just intesifies because it is easily attainable. right now i am in the states and ive done more thinking about settling down with one of the 2 girls im involved with but i know as soon asd i get to los that will be out the window in a few days
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. i am a complete Hornball, and when im in se asia, it just intesifies because it is easily attainable.
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Old 22-06-2005, 23:03
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Its just so tough.. not a day goes by without seeing some REALLY cute girl.. and here in Patong the vast majority are available..

Manogomy seems like a really endangered hardwood !!
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Visa runs and work related trips are welcome.

I have a one year visa but she dosen't know it

I also have to go to Bangkok for "work" then I produce something remotely related to my profession.

It's been only a couple of months - Am I bad?

I think she enjoys the break too. "honey why is there only four condoms left in the cabinet when there was twelve" Just a joke but looking for a nanny cam.
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Old 23-06-2005, 05:44
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Visa runs and work related trips are welcome.

I have a one year visa but she dosen't know it

I also have to go to Bangkok for "work" then I produce something remotely related to my profession.

It's been only a couple of months - Am I bad?

I think she enjoys the break too. "honey why is there only four condoms left in the cabinet when there was twelve" Just a joke but looking for a nanny cam.

mmmmmmmmmm ok lover boy so why did u take her to hong kong with u?

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Old 23-06-2005, 10:44
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Cause honkers birds are pricey !!!

Even the flippers over there want a fair bit..
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Old 23-06-2005, 11:04
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Settling down with a TG/BG in LOS - Can it be done?

mmmm settling down with a TG in LOS.

That would be impossable for me.......because I love then ALL.

Never the same one twice. Rex
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Old 23-06-2005, 14:42
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Cause honkers birds are pricey !!!

Even the flippers over there want a fair bit..

Exactly right Livin Los, importing the tilac for the brief time was a cost saving decision.
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Old 23-06-2005, 17:22
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With all the temptation out in LOS is it really really possible to be with one TG/BG and be tempted to stray even once???????

Have been married for going on 10 years and have not strayed once. Did all my playing around before that, now I respect my wife too much.
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Have been married for going on 10 years and have not strayed once. Did all my playing around before that, now I respect my wife too much.
I feel exactly the same way
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Old 23-06-2005, 19:28
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Have been married for going on 10 years and have not strayed once. Did all my playing around before that, now I respect my wife too much.
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i really respect what you just said, about respecting your wife. that is great. i am not close to that point, but maybe will be there one day. thats how i feel though, im gonna screw around as much as i want but when i finally say "i do", i probably wouldnt touch another woman, because i wouldnt want her touching another guy. well said
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Old 23-06-2005, 20:08
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, im gonna screw around as much as i want but when i finally say "i do", i probably wouldnt touch another woman, because i wouldnt want her touching another guy. well said

Funny thing about is, you dont get to say "I do". Mine was sign here, that will be B20 thanks.
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Old 23-06-2005, 21:41
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if i was to settle down, say in phuket, i would have to make trips to pattaya, bkk, philipines. i am a complete ornball, and when im in se asia, it just intesifies because it is easily attainable. right now i am in the states and ive done more thinking about settling down with one of the 2 girls im involved with but i know as soon asd i get to los that will be out the window in a few days
Come to Thailand and settle down? You Fool...... Went out with a group of Thai businessmen who just opened a office next to me. There I was @ a joint I thought never existed with a 50 kg cutie with all the ASSets...No problem with the missus as the boys P/U the tab......Woke up on the mezzanine in my underware and slept till 7 pm.....she knew I did not withdraw any monies so..."It is all about the BHT!"
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Old 23-06-2005, 21:50
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50KG... what a porker

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I followed it up to the bit where you were OK with the missus then I got lost. Also, what has going out on the tear got to do with settling down in Thailand ?? I'm confused.

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thanks, diz, i thought i couldnt read very well. i think he was still drunk when he typed it
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Old 24-06-2005, 05:21
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Isnt it funny that they hate dishonesty when they are even worse for it, Double standards or what..55555..

By the way, I went Thai and still love farang chicks, Variety is the spice of life
There are bad people everywhere and I just think that over all Thais are better than anywhere else I have ever been...(46 countries) and I havent had a bad experience yet...
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i was thinking the same thing, im so shallow!
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With all the temptation out in LOS is it really really possible to be with one TG/BG and be tempted to stray even once???????

I know for me that unless I was totally in Love BIGTIME I think the temptation to have a quick one would become to much with another girl. Even if it was for an hour and totally meaningless I don't think I could last.

I wonder how many other BM's have fallen to the temptation over the years?

I think it is a very strong willed man that can rise above all this
I've been struggling how to answer this post. I keep coming back to the thread, to see if someone has come up with some magic words to address it. I haven't seen these words yet, or saying it differently, ... if the words have been posted by some of the other great posters to this thread, they are presented in a simple manner, with a very deep meaning that requires thought.

I've been married for over 4 years now to a TG. Since we currently live in Europe, I finally decided I can't answer your question properly, as we don't live in LOS, and hence I don't have the same level of temptation thrown at me here in Europe, as I might have in the LOS.

Having stated that, I do know on our lengthy vacations that we take in Thailand every year, the temptation you refer to must be there. Thus far our marriage is intact, and I don't consider myself that strong willed.

A lot depends on what one wants to experience in life. If one has been married, and the burn marks now has one on a path of "single man's" path to enjoyment and fullfillment, then I think that is great. Have a fun time! (and post your stories)!

But if one meets any women (Thai or other nationality), and the chemistry, the conversations, the fun, and a host of other things are right, then I think a way of continuing that enjoyment is something everyone should consider. That could mean a path toward marriage. I honestly believe that just because one lives in Thailand, where temptations abound, should not by itself be a show stopper to a new chapter in one's life. If one truely finds a female mate, where the love is mutual, and the love is very strong, it would be unfortunate to turn away, because of a worry that the LOS temptations was going to make a life together impossible. Perhaps the key words are a "very strong mutual love".


But I confess my view can't be objective, as I am posting as a married man.

An interesting thread. Thanks for starting it. But I'm not sure there is any answer to your question, other than trial, time, and experiences.

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I've been struggling how to answer this post. I keep coming back to the thread, to see if someone has come up with some magic words to address it. I haven't seen these words yet, or saying it differently, ... if the word