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Old 19-09-2005, 20:25
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Is it possible to meet girls that are not BG's?

Is it possible to meet girls that are not BG's? I don't mind putting in a little work if needed. It seems all the girls in Phuket are BG's.

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Old 19-09-2005, 20:43
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Of course its possible.,. However the non G's are just as bad as the BG's for taking you to the cleaners..

For example, my brother arrived the other day.. Had a break up with his TG of 2 - 3 years.. 2 night later found a sweet little girl fresh to the scene.. Shes living in my place now.. Quiet, doesnt smoke, cute, cleaning the place up all the time, seems pefect GF material.. He is taking her onwards through singapore and onto Bali for a while this week..

Most of them are looking for a LT relationship especially if yoru young and responsible etc.. Just dont pick the tattoo'ed harlets that have been around for a while (I will take care of them )...

If it really bothers you (and in truth a lot of your appeal is going to be financial whether you actually pay direct or not) try Phuket town, jammin, timber hut, T2, etc.. Learn Thai ASAP..
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Old 19-09-2005, 20:57
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I really I don't mind P4P. I have paid for my share trust me. I was just thinking GF material. I realize no matter what, especially in Thailand, I will be paying in some way. It’s like that the world over. I just want nice girl, and if I meet her in one of the bars, so be it. I’m sure I’ll be able to settle right in, once I arrive. Thanks again for more good info, LivinLOS, you’re a wealth of knowledge.
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Old 19-09-2005, 21:53
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2 things weldon,
1st, i saw you asking about a room. i would suggest getting a hotel for the 2st 2 weeks and look around. you find better deals that way.
2nd, after awhile being there, you wont even think about a girl being a bg or not. there are plenty of good bg's that are just working because of circumstance
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. there are plenty of good bg's that are just working because of circumstance
AGREE WITH YOU PAULIE..............
I SUPPOSE IF HES WILLING TO PUT IN THE TIME .THERE IS LOTS OF GIRLS WORKING IN THE SHOPPING PLAZAS ......THAT ARE NON WORKING GIRLS.........
BUT IMO ....MOST GIRLS ......WORKING OR NON WORKING HAVE ONE THING IN COMMON!!!!!!!! MONEY....................
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Old 19-09-2005, 23:58
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Hey I know... Thats what all women, everywhere in the world want is money.
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As he is becoming a resident its a fair angle to chase as it does mean less worries about a Thai boyfriend in the background or her taking a quick ST with an old customer (the mobile ringing etc).. Personally as I have stated many times before I think you can meet heartless b1tches that are not 'working' girls and meet great and loyal BG's.. They are all just people after all..

I think if you go around (at your age) you will be getting come on smiles all over the place (its great).. I am no brad pitt (ok enough already from the peanut gallery) but recently me and Fin were in Lotus and there were 2 of the 'hand out leaflet' models / dollys off duty sat outside one of the coffee counters.. Walked past first time, got the eye and broad smiles, then when coming back got flirty eyes and giggles... Game on !! These are dolled up models and tel numbers were there for the taking..

Same location last week.. Going into Home Pro they had developers stalls set up for house sales.. One of the stalls had an AMAZING looking thai lady working there.. Not young perhaps late 20's but ABSOLUTELY stunning (dressed kinda formal in a suit skirt combo.. add seamed stockings and you would have fainted).. On way in I noticed her but she was busy.. On way out eye contact and my obvious interest got a big flirty come on smile.. Perhaps she was being flirty for the sales aspect but either way.. Both of these were in the last couple of weeks alone..

I already have a GF and I am down amoung the bad girls nightly.. I dont have time or interest in romancing a normal girl currently (she would probably expect monogomy as well as gold ) but theres lots out there and lots of interest..
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from what i seen on my trip, if youre going to live there you shouldnt have a problem finding a good girl to be gf, but if youre just going on vacation dont get a gf or fall in love, these are mistakes i made and learned from , for me its having fun and BG's all day and night, then back off to reality land and making money for my next getaway.
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from what i seen on my trip, if youre going to live there you shouldnt have a problem finding a good girl to be gf, but if youre just going on vacation dont get a gf or fall in love, these are mistakes i made and learned from , for me its having fun and BG's all day and night, then back off to reality land and making money for my next getaway.

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As he is becoming a resident its a fair angle to chase as it does mean less worries about a Thai boyfriend in the background or her taking a quick ST with an old customer (the mobile ringing etc).. Personally as I have stated many times before I think you can meet heartless b1tches that are not 'working' girls and meet great and loyal BG's.. They are all just people after all..

I think if you go around (at your age) you will be getting come on smiles all over the place (its great).. I am no brad pitt (ok enough already from the peanut gallery) but recently me and Fin were in Lotus and there were 2 of the 'hand out leaflet' models / dollys off duty sat outside one of the coffee counters.. Walked past first time, got the eye and broad smiles, then when coming back got flirty eyes and giggles... Game on !! These are dolled up models and tel numbers were there for the taking..

Same location last week.. Going into Home Pro they had developers stalls set up for house sales.. One of the stalls had an AMAZING looking thai lady working there.. Not young perhaps late 20's but ABSOLUTELY stunning (dressed kinda formal in a suit skirt combo.. add seamed stockings and you would have fainted).. On way in I noticed her but she was busy.. On way out eye contact and my obvious interest got a big flirty come on smile.. Perhaps she was being flirty for the sales aspect but either way.. Both of these were in the last couple of weeks alone..

I already have a GF and I am down amoung the bad girls nightly.. I dont have time or interest in romancing a normal girl currently (she would probably expect monogomy as well as gold ) but theres lots out there and lots of interest..
thats funny, when i hung out with that cute nurse in december, i ended up blowing her off because i figured if she is a good tg she didnt need a knucklehead like me screwing her over.
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all women cost money all over the world,
if you fall in love you buy her gifts
if you get engage you buy her a ring
if you get married you make her happy with a nice party
then you can give her every month your salary
when you get divorced she and her lawyer take you to the cleaners.

i had a tg she was ok sweet and innocent i was her first boyfriend,nevr asked
me for anything but her family was another story they saw me as a walking atm they pushed her to get married and want me to pay 500.000 thb for sinsord her father was a lazy bastard who sat drunk all day at home while her mother works on the farm i told him no sinsord then he forbid my tf to see me again,he don't give a shit about his daughter, now i stick to bg's there are a lot good ones between them and not so many problems
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I got some advice from an old friend that lived in Thailand for years. He said because I was good looking (I modeled for most of my life) I can be and should be very picky. This I already knew. He explained to me that I should only date upper class Thai girls, college educated, good job, ect. He said he found less headaches, no sick buffaloes, ect. Now... just where to find these girls. lol

Let me know if any of you can share any experiences with dating upper class Thai girls?

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WHY ARE YOU GOING TO THAILAND IF YOU ARE SO HOT !!!!!!

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He explained to me that I should only date upper class Thai girls, college educated, good job, ect.
WHATS WRONG WITH THE OTHER TYPE OF GIRLS...........IVE BEEN WITH LOTS OF GIRLS WHO HAVE BEEN DOWN ON THEIR LUCK AND THEY HAVE NEVER CAUSED ME PROBLEMS!!!!!!!!!

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IM AN UGLY FCUKER.I DONT LOOK FOR HOT LOOKING EDUACATED CHICKS...ITS JUST A WASTE OF TIME!!!!!
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WHY ARE YOU GOING TO THAILAND IF YOU ARE SO HOT !!!!!!


WHATS WRONG WITH THE OTHER TYPE OF GIRLS...........IVE BEEN WITH LOTS OF GIRLS WHO HAVE BEEN DOWN ON THEIR LUCK AND THEY HAVE NEVER CAUSED ME PROBLEMS!!!!!!!!!


IM AN UGLY FCUKER.I DONT LOOK FOR HOT LOOKING EDUACATED CHICKS...ITS JUST A WASTE OF TIME!!!!!
HOPE THIS HELPS...IJ
Unlike IJ........I'm a bit of a Brad Pitt-a-likey (or maybe Sean Connery in the right light!) and can't seem to find anyone to love me in Phuket!! I had to give up modelling full time to become a Security bloke and grow a beard! I still live in hope!
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I got some advice from an old friend that lived in Thailand for years. He said because I was good looking (I modeled for most of my life) I can be and should be very picky. This I already knew. He explained to me that I should only date upper class Thai girls, college educated, good job, ect. He said he found less headaches, no sick buffaloes, ect. Now... just where to find these girls. lol

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Yes, if you want to get married

You will find them with rich Hi-So Thai guys probably, seeing as their parents will be rich anyhow - bringing a farang boyfriend home probably wouldnt be seen in the same light as a poorer girl bringing home a farang.

Its probably even more of a headache in terms of money as I'm sure most Hi-So Thai girls have been spoiled rotten by their families.

Bar Girls or "Normal Girls" probably have the same % of good and bad apples, they are just people after all - I'm sure nobody grows up thinking "I want to be a bar girl when Im older".
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WHATS WRONG WITH THE OTHER TYPE OF GIRLS...........IVE BEEN WITH LOTS OF GIRLS WHO HAVE BEEN DOWN ON THEIR LUCK AND THEY HAVE NEVER CAUSED ME PROBLEMS!!!!!!!!!

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[quote=IRISH JONNY]WHY ARE YOU GOING TO THAILAND IF YOU ARE SO HOT !!!!!!

I am not going to Thailand to find a woman. I am going because of my job. I was just curious to see other people experiences, as I am going to be there for 2 years. In Addition, Thailand has a lot more to offer then just the woman. I am sorry you see it only as a "sex tourism" destination. I will be taking advantage of the world class Scuba diving, Sailing, and fishing. Not to mention the culture, food, ect. I can't wait!!

Who knows who I'll end up dating? I was just relaying what a long time resident of Thailand had told me. You are right good people come from all Social-economic backgrounds. I would never prejudge a person's soul by how much money they have. Sorry if you misunderstood me.

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Thailand has a lot more to offer then just the woman. I am sorry you see it only as a "sex tourism" destination. I will be taking advantage of the world class Scuba diving, Sailing, and fishing. Not to mention the culture, food, ect. I can't wait W

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WHY ARE YOU GOING TO THAILAND IF YOU ARE SO HOT !!!!!!

I am not going to Thailand to find a woman. I am going because of my job. I was just curious to see other people experiences, as I am going to be there for 2 years. In Addition, Thailand has a lot more to offer then just the woman. I am sorry you see it only as a "sex tourism" destination. I will be taking advantage of the world class Scuba diving, Sailing, and fishing. Not to mention the culture, food, ect. I can't wait!!

Who knows who I'll end up dating? I was just relaying what a long time resident of Thailand had told me. You are right good people come from all Social-economic backgrounds. I would never prejudge a person's soul by how much money they have. Sorry if you misunderstood me.

W

I think maybe this guy fancied you, Keep your ar*e to the wall when your around him in future is my advise..5555555..

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