Guys,
I have to get this off my chest....I've been going to Thailand for the last 3 years. Had my fun as we do , consider myself to be well informed from this forum and experiences....and read the stickman stories.
How can guys be so gullible ?
well here is my 'shortened' story for all to see :-
Over the last 3 months I have been to Thailand twice. The first time was in August and started as a dedicated golfing holliday in Hua Hin for 1 week and then some serious R&R in Patong for a further 2 weeks...
...but I never got to leave Hua Hin. The 3rd LBFM I snagged (I met by accident) turned out to be the most fantastic girl I have ever spent time (aka money) with, farang or thai. She was so kind, fun and looked after me so well
There is a lot of detail that i'll skip. I could write a stickman letter here.... Just here me say that I 'fell in Love' like a stupid teenager

Returned to my expat posting thinking about cashing up and fleeing to Thailand with the cash , duh.....I overcame the urge, I just booked a return 'vacation' to Thailand asap
I went back to Thailand in October for another 3 weeks. I WANTED TO GET HER OUT OF MY SYSTEM. Prove that she was just anothre money grabbing ho....Well, this time together turned out to be the most magical 'honeymoon' that you could ever imagine.
We stayed in Hua Hin for a week until the rain flooded the town and I said 'lets go to Patong', booked the Patong Villa (sweet suite) and the overnight VIP24 coach and off we went. Then after 4 days in Patong ( she did not like the 'in-your-face BG scene') tirak said 'will you come and see house me and meet mamma in Loei'.... I was taken aback. This was getting serious from her side.
I said yes as long as we could be 'together'

. She called mamma, all was agreed, so I booked phuket-bangkok and bangkok-loei. 20 hrs on a VIP coach. Great.
I stayed with the family for a week and paid for everything. But the money was not the issue. I had a great time. She made it clear to all that I was her 'husband'. I was well chuffed.
Family took me all over the place (11 ppl in truck !!!) , showing me farm land for sale, houses for sale etc etc, even went to udon thani to see more... but I declined.
What I did discuss with her was that I could not let her go back to Hua Hin. I was now so serious about her and she said she was serious about me. So , I wanted her to stay in Loei and I would pay... (what, hello, wake up, was I really saying this !!! Stickman, help) as long as she re-started the 'beauty salon' she had before to keep her busy.
She agreed..... so I bought her a Suzuki 110cc bike for transport ! Oh sh1t.
On the 6th November, she left me at the Don Muang airport to go to HH to get her stuff......I returned to work . Today she told me she let her room go , bought 3 suitcases and packed her belongings and was on the 7pm bus to BKK and on her way home.........
I'm so happy now... but for how long ? Time will tell. I'll keep you posted.
Regards to all. (especially Livinlos)
Hex