Phuket

london1 · #1 21-11-2005, 03:36

hi guys and gals

wondered if some of you older or experienced people out there could lend me your ears and then give me your thoughts on my situation.

as some of you guys know ive never ben to los yet (first trip feburary) so i only know the scene there by what ive read and heard. i have a girlfriend here already but ive always wanted to go los so ive decided ill go before i change my mind and go somewere else. anyway ive been talking to a thai girl on one of the chat sites, she amazingly beautiful in looks and her personality.my plan is to go to bkk for 3-4 days then on to patong for the rest of my three weeks. we already agreed to meet and she will meet me in bkk (she lives in korat) but today she asked if she could go with me to phuket!!!!

this is where i need advice, do i bring her and have a great holiday with a beautiful girl (i know they are all beautiful) or do i go on my own with my friend? i dont want to be stuck with her and not get any!(u know what i mean) she doesnt drink either!

i ask because am i right in thinking that non thai girls dont erm have ^&x before marrige??

thanks for any advice, i need it.

marc26 · #2 21-11-2005, 05:14

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Originally Posted by london1

hi guys and gals

wondered if some of you older or experienced people out there could lend me your ears and then give me your thoughts on my situation.

as some of you guys know ive never ben to los yet (first trip feburary) so i only know the scene there by what ive read and heard. i have a girlfriend here already but ive always wanted to go los so ive decided ill go before i change my mind and go somewere else. anyway ive been talking to a thai girl on one of the chat sites, she amazingly beautiful in looks and her personality.my plan is to go to bkk for 3-4 days then on to patong for the rest of my three weeks. we already agreed to meet and she will meet me in bkk (she lives in korat) but today she asked if she could go with me to phuket!!!!

this is where i need advice, do i bring her and have a great holiday with a beautiful girl (i know they are all beautiful) or do i go on my own with my friend? i dont want to be stuck with her and not get any!(u know what i mean) she doesnt drink either!

i ask because am i right in thinking that non thai girls dont erm have ^&x before marrige??

thanks for any advice, i need it.

depends on what typr of guy you are.
i would advise you to meet her in bkk, then got o patong by yourself.
at your age, 1st time to LOS, you really owe it to your self to go to patong and have a ball. i say this especially, because now you know about MTB, so you can go there and meet people

Mav · #3 21-11-2005, 05:36

I would suggest it is dangerous to meet her.......unless you are really strong willed she will end up going to Patong with you and your holiday will end up becoming a gf/bf trip.....and u already have that back home.

So go to Bkk.....score a few there and then to Patong to score a whole lot more

StGeorge · #4 21-11-2005, 05:45

Do NOT tie yourself to one girl, you will regret it if you do. As you're young and free you should make the most of your time there, you know what I mean.

Remember good heart = weak heart.

Good luck!

andy50 · #5 21-11-2005, 05:57

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Originally Posted by london1

hi guys and gals

wondered if some of you older or experienced people out there could lend me your ears and then give me your thoughts on my situation.

as some of you guys know ive never ben to los yet (first trip feburary) so i only know the scene there by what ive read and heard. i have a girlfriend here already but ive always wanted to go los so ive decided ill go before i change my mind and go somewere else. anyway ive been talking to a thai girl on one of the chat sites, she amazingly beautiful in looks and her personality.my plan is to go to bkk for 3-4 days then on to patong for the rest of my three weeks. we already agreed to meet and she will meet me in bkk (she lives in korat) but today she asked if she could go with me to phuket!!!!

this is where i need advice, do i bring her and have a great holiday with a beautiful girl (i know they are all beautiful) or do i go on my own with my friend? i dont want to be stuck with her and not get any!(u know what i mean) she doesnt drink either!

i ask because am i right in thinking that non thai girls dont erm have ^&x before marrige??

thanks for any advice, i need it.

what "chat site"
is she/was she a bar girl ?---if as i suspect she is- steer clear! unless you have lots of money to lose , confortably! bt-way she will be a great shag !!

barfly · #6 21-11-2005, 06:11

Quote:

Originally Posted by StGeorge

Do NOT tie yourself to one girl, you will regret it if you do. As you're young and free you should make the most of your time there, you know what I mean.

Remember good heart = weak heart.

Good luck!

Oh you world weary cynics,you!

charlie5005 · #7 21-11-2005, 08:02

do ask yourself the purpose of the trip to los. also the state of relationship
between you and your gf back home. spending most of your time with another while away would only complicate matters when you get back. spend your time in patong without that girl from korat and have fun. cheers.

JayBee · #8 21-11-2005, 10:14

I think that Charlie hit the nail on the head, in that your relationship with your current GF is the key to answer the question of what should you do. If you are serious about your GF and think that your relationship with her is going somewhere in the future, then you should skip the BKK meeting or spend not more than a few days with that girl. Then you should go to Patong to sample the delights that so many BGs/FLS have to offer. You should not risk getting emotionally caught up with a TG, if you value the relationship with your GF.

However, if you have serious questions about your current relationship, are dissatisfied with it, and/or feel that in the long run it is going nowhere, then you might really want to consider being open to what might happen with a beautiful TG, provided you understand all the myriad of potential dilemmas involved with that. I'm not going to enumerate those here. Just read a sampling of threads about relationships with TGs(there is a section devoted to that). To embark upon a relationship with a TG is more often than not a very perilous journey, but certainly, if you can develop a real and a successful relationship, then the rewards can be well commensurate with the risks.

In any case, if I were you, I would go to Phuket first. Spend a week or two there, before you go to BKK and meet up with the TG. Tell her your schedule has changed. Then if you should decide to spend more time with her, at least you will know what you are giving up to do so. As to whether she puts out, it depends on whether she is really a good girl or just a BG/golddigger looking to get some gold, or pull a scam on you. Some TGs will put out and some won't. If she is a good girl, and does put out, then expect some major emotional repercussions from her, because she might expect a lot from you in return. It is true that a lot of the good girls do not put out readily.

Good luck, and keep us posted!!