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Old 26-11-2005, 09:02
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come on 4000b: for a night in the sack tin your not a newbe tin my mate your brains are in your **** never pay upfront if you want her over a few nights your just asking her to do a runner as for letting her stay in your room while u pop out tin you have just met this girl
you are lucky is was only 4000bh she turn over and not your room

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Old 26-11-2005, 11:38
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i hope you dont mind some advice or critisism. and it may not be your cup of tea, but it feels to me that the way you go about these girls is you are paying them and they are yours for that time. in theory, i guess thats true. but it seems like as soon as you get inot patong your looking for a lady. what i think works best is to go out, let the girls come naturally. go to MTB, go to Love Bar and let it flow. i think by going on right for a girl that you really havent talked to and judt think is pretty, you dont get a complete feel for them. by hanging out with the guys, cathcing a bg's eye, playing some eye games with her, talking to her for a few drinks before you discuss bf her, i think it works out better that way


I never try to discuss prices, but if i start about coming with me , it is the first thing they ask. I did exactely what you say, let it flow 5555, result a happy lonely night in Karon.

You really think that I am so stupid to pay a girl 4.000 bath for one night? C'mom! I did not pay the other girl on forehand, so I went to the bar, payed the girl 1000 bath, asked my bf back and just did not discuss any further about it. I know exactely what the point was, she prefered to go out to the disco with her friends, then to get bored with an old man in Karon. Be it.

Had a nice time with acient marinier and went home to bed at 2.00, after drinking a last drink with the bg I had the first night, who was only dissapointed I did not bf her again for a few days. Nice girl, but really not pretty enough to get me excited for a few days.

I don't mind. The only thing that enerves me is that rotten rain, and the fact that I do not get over the jetlag and do not sleep and really look like shit.

Let the sun come out!

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Old 26-11-2005, 11:56
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guys, 1st off. i dont think anyone should make bad remarks about tintin, hes writing this to tell about his vacation, so if you dont have any advise, id suggest saying nothing.

you already know this martin, but i saw alot of girls in karon, kata that cater to guys like you, that like more of a quiet night than going out crazy, the only thing is a little harder finding prettier ones.

i think you should go and hang out at MTB more, for longer periods of time, thats how i usually end up having fun. your a nice, intersting guy to talk to.
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Gee TinTin, l feel a major catastrophe just around the corner..........after reading your report l am ready to dive for the Prozac ......seriously l am sure you are having fun, just cannot feel that coming thru your reports atm.
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Old 26-11-2005, 12:05
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I am staying far more then usual in MT bar. Yesterday even 2 hours and had most of the fun there. Yes I am depressed, not by the girls, like I said I had some pretty ones and some fantastic *****, but I am not getting over my jet-lag, because I cannot sleep and am tired all the time.

And you know me, I am an open book! If it is great and a good experience I will tell it, when it is like I am now, no use to hide it either. Days are long when it is raining all the time, it is still right now.
Ah I need a beach.....
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I am staying far more then usual in MT bar. Yesterday even 2 hours and had most of the fun there. Yes I am depressed, not by the girls, like I said I had some pretty ones and some fantastic *****, but I am not getting over my jet-lag, because I cannot sleep and am tired all the time.

And you know me, I am an open book! If it is great and a good experience I will tell it, when it is like I am now, no use to hide it either. Days are long when it is raining all the time, it is still right now.
Ah I need a beach.....

Ah I need a beach..... yeah, it rained non-stop when i was there in ocotober. just read alot of books and relaxed
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Old 26-11-2005, 13:36
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Hi Martin,

If you are still planning on coming to KL on 29 Nov, you will also face..rain, rain and more rain...it is the monsoon season now in Malaysia...it is raining everyday irrespective of the time..morning, afternoon and evening...there are floods right now in the East Coast!!!! I believe it is flooding in Southern Thailand e.g. Songkla and Hatyai is preparing to face the same situation

So prepare for more uninteresting time...when it rains in KL..expect traffic jams and minor floods in the city.

Today is the first day I seen some nice and bright sunshine but it was raining heavily this morning!

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Old 26-11-2005, 15:18
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I don't remember seeing any price lists up in the bars S/T costs xx L/T costs xxx etc and I also can't seem to find any official figures from TAT - funny that don't you think ??


Or to put it in simple terms for doughnuts like you - pay what you want and get what you pay for !!

DOH !!

Hey I make a comment from what I see and do before so don't be rude.

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Old 26-11-2005, 15:43
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i hope you dont mind some advice or critisism. and it may not be your cup of tea, but it feels to me that the way you go about these girls is you are paying them and they are yours for that time. in theory, i guess thats true. but it seems like as soon as you get inot patong your looking for a lady. what i think works best is to go out, let the girls come naturally. go to MTB, go to Love Bar and let it flow. i think by going on right for a girl that you really havent talked to and judt think is pretty, you dont get a complete feel for them. by hanging out with the guys, cathcing a bg's eye, playing some eye games with her, talking to her for a few drinks before you discuss bf her, i think it works out better that way


Although I 100% agree we have to remember that some guys just dont like the drink / party all night vibe (so I am told !!).. In fact my brother is similar, he hardly ever drinks so for him bars etc can be dull not becuase of the bars but because having conversations sober with drunks gets painful..

Was in Safari last night.. Busy and pumping.. some great looking girls about currently IMHO..
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I am staying far more then usual in MT bar. Yesterday even 2 hours and had most of the fun there. Yes I am depressed, not by the girls, like I said I had some pretty ones and some fantastic *****, but I am not getting over my jet-lag, because I cannot sleep and am tired all the time.

And you know me, I am an open book! If it is great and a good experience I will tell it, when it is like I am now, no use to hide it either. Days are long when it is raining all the time, it is still right now.
Ah I need a beach.....

Tintin, If I was a little hard on you in my last post here, my apologies. I am not sure that I understood what you were saying, and am still not sure. But it seems that what you last said about the girl at Bachelor Bar was quite different than what you said before!

At any rate, it sounds like you need to relax more than you need to get laid. My advice is this: Don't worry about the girls and the sex. Just have a good time. As Marc says, get a good book, chill out! But if it were me, I would start getting massages every day. That always makes me feel better and helps with the jet lag, which can sometimes take me 2 weeks to recover from fully. Here's a tip: Go to the C&N massage parlor next to the hotel lobby. Ask for Tuk(hopefully she still works there). Get a 2-hour massage every day for a week(no funny business). She will make you feel like a new man and put a smile on your face. Then your luck will change for sure!!
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Old 26-11-2005, 17:00
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I can understand the weather thing.. We are currently picking up the heavy rains that have been warned about and its is simply pissing it down non stop.. Doesnt give much of a respite even if its not cold..

Get a good waterproof poncho.. Get a good slow massage.. Get some books (though not as easy a it sounds in French or Belgian locally and reading in a non native language can be a head ache I guess) and take it easy.. I guess this is why Karon doesnt factor into my favorites as more places to chill, play pool, get distracted around Patong..
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Old 26-11-2005, 17:34
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Last trip I needed a couple of days down time. I stayed at the C&N. It is a great location to relax. In the lobby they have a small book-rack that has books in many languages. Across from the entrance is a small, relaxed bar and in the same street are a couple of good massage places and restaurants.
When my time was up and the g/f arrived to pick me up I was a bit disappointed because I was well into a very interesting book I found in the rack.
That whole place really gave me a boost. The staff were great except for the advice from the receptionist that I should "boxing my girlfriend" to sort her out. However, the receptionist did offer to ensure I was not alone but I did want some time to myself.
Went back to the bungalow totally refreshed.
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Old 26-11-2005, 17:53
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If you are still planning on coming to KL on 29 Nov, you will also face..rain, rain and more rain...it is the monsoon season now in Malaysia...it is raining everyday irrespective of the time..morning, afternoon and evening...there are floods right now in the East Coast!!!! I believe it is flooding in Southern Thailand e.g. Songkla and Hatyai is preparing to face the same situation

I was in KL last november and I have never seen rain like that before. When I sat in the taxi from the airport to my hotel, I asked the driver when it was going to stop.. He just smiled at me and said "in 2 months"

It wasnt that bad afterall though.. sure it rained alot but the worst thing that happend was that you got stuck in a bar or a restaurant for a bit longer or you got wet.

I really enjoyed KL and especially the nightlife at "The Beach"
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Old 26-11-2005, 18:58
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Malesian, I am trying to cancel what I can. What is the use of spending quiet some money to sit in a hotel-room. Pitty, pitty, pitty. I look to weather-conditions in other places not to remoted, Chiang Mai, or even Pattaya.

For some this can sound ridicoulous, but I come to Los, not primary for the girls. My wife and I came here on regular bassis together. As winther is still long, but certainly not so wet as now in Phuket, I need an escape to sit always inside my little office, behind my computer.

Normally I get up late, have breakfast/lunch at same time and I am on the beach at 14.30-15.00. By 17.30, I go to the room, and then internet or a massage. I heve dinner between 20.00 and 21.00, then listen to some music, like in Margaritas, Mt bar or other, chase sometimes when I am alone.

When I have a steady girl, that I did not manage to find now, I prefer to go have dinner, sometimes a bar, or cocktailbar, or tv, with a good glass of wine home.

But like I said, I prefer to be OUTSIDE, especially during the day. Believe me, the idea of staying in that little bungalow in Karon for at least 10 days is not a very enjoyable holliday....
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Have another look in the playbook

TinTin..Yeah the wet weather would dampen anyones enthusiam...especially when on holidays....
Many BM have already offered you advice/ideas of how they would overcome the problems you are encountering right now....
Just choose the ones you most relate to and give them a go...you might be surprised how things change if you try...
I usually go off to the beach for the swim/surf and girls....if it sunny or raining it doesn't matter....
Many people relate HOLIDAYS with sunshine...and become confused/unprepared when the weather is not as they hoped...
Good luck and may the clouds dissappear>>>>and you smile shine upon Phuket..
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To be honest i like a little rain now and then when im in LOS .. it cool´s of a bit and you don´t have to think your a bad tourist cos´you never saw the beach this week
You can sleep long time boom boom all day and make "evil" plans for the coming evening 555
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I never try to discuss prices, but if i start about coming with me , it is the first thing they ask. I did exactely what you say, let it flow 5555, result a happy lonely night in Karon...
I must admit Tintin that there does seem to be something wrong with your approach, as many BM's make posts where they state that money is not discussed and they just hand over 1,000/1,500baht etc in the morning, by discreetly leaving it by their handbag etc. I have read your posts here a few times and can't work out why they treat you differently. Perhaps next time when you ask them to go with you and they raise the subject of money, try either a). ignoring the comment or b). suggesting that they don't go with you if they are more interested in money than you. The nearest I get to finding the reason, goes with the second suggestion and that is you are not picking girls that really want to go with you and therefore are just doing it for the money. Perhaps next time you might consider a girl that is not quite as cute as the others, but is at least showing an interest in you. On my recent tour, I took a trip to the Darkside on my first night and money was not discussed, even in the morning. I just woke up, had a shower and then handed Emmy 1,500baht as she was getting dressed.

Another thing you might want to consider, is not to try and make an arrangement for 3 days (or longer), but to take the first night as it comes and then see how you feel in the morning. If you are happy then talk to her about the possibility of staying with you for a few more days, she might want this as well if she's happy with you. Alternatively, she might not want to stay for longer and you should not try to talk her in to doing so, as it will no doubt have an effect on the atmosphere between the two of you. The haredest thing to do is let go of someone you like but who has no desire to stay with you.

You're there for a while longer still, I hope your luck changes for the better, I'm sure it will
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I never try to discuss prices, but if i start about coming with me , it is the first thing they ask. I did exactely what you say, let it flow 5555, result a happy lonely night in Karon.

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This thread has really had me thinking. Thinking because my own experiences over more than 10 trips have been so much the opposite of Tin Tin's and I have been trying to work out why.

I think maybe the differences are that I tend to go out later and stay out later than TT appears to do, but I never go looking for girls they just appear. I dont go ST from choice but have never had a girl want to leave after the first deed but always stay for the night and then always ask me if I *** to bar or wherever next day. This has lead on to two LT realtionships which I have enjoyed as much as when I've butterflyed. I dont directly pay when in Lt but it still works out the same because after counting costs of food, shopping etc it balances out and I prefer sometimes to live in the pretend Gf relationship.

So after saying all that, I can only conclude that you (TT) are putting to much early pressure on the relationship, asking for 3 days before youv'e even had one, looking for Mrs perfect maybe when she's probably been trying to connect with you all evening. I like it raining cos it cools off the day, things to do, millions, afternoon bars, arranging pool competion with other Bm's, hate to say it but indoor shooting compo maybe (count me out) and the obvious just staying in bed with a warm cuddly tg.

Perhaps its just about being happy with yourself first, I find fun in an empty room on my own add anything else and it just gets better, it poured one afternoon on my last trip I just organised charades in the hotel reception, ended up 25 people playing from all around, different countries, brilliant fun for a coupla hours. The more people you meet the more fun can be had, tried taking a bunch or tg's prawn fishing, going back to theirs after to eat your catch, they will organise tomorrows fun and it just goes on from there, blimey compared to freezing cold england I know where I'd rather be right now!!
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I also happen to think that you would be in a much better position going out later, the girls will be a little more tired, have had their fun dancing or whatever and will be on the scout for a bloke.

BG's will start the evening off with a possibility that an incredibly handsome or rich man will take them to a restaurant, dancing and then to a posh hotel - Towards the end of the night the realisation that this probably wont happen brings them back down to Earth.
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This thread has really had me thinking. Thinking because my own experiences over more than 10 trips have been so much the opposite of Tin Tin's and I have been trying to work out why.

I think maybe the differences are that I tend to go out later and stay out later than TT appears to do, but I never go looking for girls they just appear. I dont go ST from choice but have never had a girl want to leave after the first deed but always stay for the night and then always ask me if I *** to bar or wherever next day. This has lead on to two LT realtionships which I have enjoyed as much as when I've butterflyed. I dont directly pay when in Lt but it still works out the same because after counting costs of food, shopping etc it balances out and I prefer sometimes to live in the pretend Gf relationship.

So after saying all that, I can only conclude that you (TT) are putting to much early pressure on the relationship, asking for 3 days before youv'e even had one, looking for Mrs perfect maybe when she's probably been trying to connect with you all evening. I like it raining cos it cools off the day, things to do, millions, afternoon bars, arranging pool competion with other Bm's, hate to say it but indoor shooting compo maybe (count me out) and the obvious just staying in bed with a warm cuddly tg.

Perhaps its just about being happy with yourself first, I find fun in an empty room on my own add anything else and it just gets better, it poured one afternoon on my last trip I just organised charades in the hotel reception, ended up 25 people playing from all around, different countries, brilliant fun for a coupla hours. The more people you meet the more fun can be had, tried taking a bunch or tg's prawn fishing, going back to theirs after to eat your catch, they will organise tomorrows fun and it just goes on from there, blimey compared to freezing cold england I know where I'd rather be right now!!

again, my thoguhts exactly.
i am not criticizing tintin, i just get this feeling that he feels that he is "hiring" these girls instead of having fun with them.
one thing that makes these girls happy more than anything is if you are willing to hang out with their friends, and believe me, you will be rewarded later for your "good heart". it really is like these girls grow fonder of you the more you show them a good time and allow them to be themselves and relax
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tin i hope this is not going to be your hoilday from helll
why are u in karon on you own the wife not there yet
why dont you get your ass down to patong and checked in to the c*n
there you can be near all the guys i am sure u will not b depress only a short walk to the bars play pool have a balled your on hoilday snap out of it man

you can always go back to karon when the wife turn up then i dont know about you but i would be depress ha ha
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To be honest i like a little rain now and then when im in LOS .. it cool´s of a bit and you don´t have to think your a bad tourist cos´you never saw the beach this week
You can sleep long time boom boom all day !

My sentiments about the rain exactly. But you forget the part where you play Tetris for hours!!!
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