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Old 18-01-2006, 22:43
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expats-do you go home much?

i was wondering about you guys who live out in LOS. do you go back to your home much?

even if i lived over in LOS, id have to go home about 3-4 times a year.
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Old 18-01-2006, 23:31
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i was wondering about you guys who live out in LOS. do you go back to your home much?

even if i lived over in LOS, id have to go home about 3-4 times a year.

Don't understand the question - I am home. Or did you mean my birth country? No, never go back.
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Old 18-01-2006, 23:56
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Don't understand the question - I am home. Or did you mean my birth country? No, never go back.

yes, i mean your birth country.
and to be honest, could never call another country my home but my country
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i was wondering about you guys who live out in LOS. do you go back to your home much?

even if i lived over in LOS, id have to go home about 3-4 times a year.

I think every evening.
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Old 19-01-2006, 20:13
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Been 4 years since I went back and the only reason I will return is to see my family.. Easier cheaper and more fun to bring them here..

Having been moving most of my life I dont have a home town or place that I can consider home..
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Old 19-01-2006, 21:07
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Been 4 years since I went back and the only reason I will return is to see my family.. Easier cheaper and more fun to bring them here..

Having been moving most of my life I dont have a home town or place that I can consider home..


Ahhh Seffy, I'll have a word when I get there a put a little cushion in Tams or VH, maybe a 'Home Sweet Home' sign and a Teddy.......
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Old 19-01-2006, 21:34
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i've been living overseas for 6 yrs now and dont really think about "home" much these days. i normally go back to uk for a month once a year and thats plenty. normally start climbing the walls after 2 weeks. altho i have been there 3 time over the past 6 months while im in transit.... for me home is where i hang my hat.
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Old 19-01-2006, 22:16
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have to agree with the previous - tis is home now. Been here 3 1/2 years and not been back to UK. As LiL says, more fun to see relatives out here.

I would like to take the GF back to the UK tho and do the tourist thang.
Maybe this year (said that every year)!
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Cool One visit every two years

I go home once every two years for the family visit.The last time I had met everyone in the first three days and was kicking my heels for the last two weeks.

I felt as if I was wasting my time instead of being out here where my home and business are.

IMO home is where you want it to be and mine happens to be here.
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I understand this. I only go to my homecountry for paperwork, or when I really have to.

Still once, maximum twice a year, but then it is only 1200 KM!
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wow! that blows my mind. i havent been to boston in 6 months and thats by far the longest time i have not been home ever
it might be where i come from. seems everyone feels the same way as me there
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I make it home once a year. THat is plenty though. It is good to get back and see family, however it seems that life changes when you are away.
I have returned full time now and do miss my life overseas.
Life changes, you make the most of where you are at the present time, if you are happy, that's great. If you are not, then it is time to make a change.

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P.S. you gotta love Vancouver though Paul. Like an oriental buffet over there!!
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I make it home once a year. THat is plenty though. It is good to get back and see family, however it seems that life changes when you are away.
I have returned full time now and do miss my life overseas.
Life changes, you make the most of where you are at the present time, if you are happy, that's great. If you are not, then it is time to make a change.

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P.S. you gotta love Vancouver though Paul. Like an oriental buffet over there!!

the other day, walking home from work, i decided to count the asian girls vs whit girls. 3-1 ratio, asian to white
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the other day, walking home from work, i decided to count the asian girls vs whit girls. 3-1 ratio, asian to white

Not really, as you were looking at 1 asian, 6 "light ones" walked past you on the other side.
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Spent a good part of my earlier life overseas, not Thailand but nearby, and also travelling around. Everyone has a very different take on it, but somehow I also felt and thought of home as Sydney, no matter where I was or how long I had been there, but doesnt mean I like Sydney more than where I was at the time.
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Spent a good part of my earlier life overseas, not Thailand but nearby, and also travelling around. Everyone has a very different take on it, but somehow I also felt and thought of home as Sydney, no matter where I was or how long I had been there, but doesnt mean I like Sydney more than where I was at the time.

i havent lived full time in boston since i was 20. lived in nyc for last 12 years but ive always, and always, will consider boston home. i use to say im going home(meaning boston) and my gf would say, you are home. but nyc was never my home(i do love nyc too though)
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Well ahh boys, you see it be all in them thar leylines, where they cross is tha strongest to call home.

The above is a local, east anglian (hence poor spelling to indicate accent) story about the local leylines, leylines don't know if that is correct spelling but I do know that they reckon more of them converge where I live than anywhere else in the UK, which means wherever I go I will always be drawn back to my home here. Time will tell if its fact or just an old wives tale.
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Well ahh boys, you see it be all in them thar leylines, where they cross is tha strongest to call home.

The above is a local, east anglian (hence poor spelling to indicate accent) story about the local leylines, leylines don't know if that is correct spelling but I do know that they reckon more of them converge where I live than anywhere else in the UK, which means wherever I go I will always be drawn back to my home here. Time will tell if its fact or just an old wives tale.

what are leylines?
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Considered lines of energy / power that run around the earth.. Theres a lot of them converging around glastonbury in the SW also..

Kind of hippy / alternative stuff.. Shakra's, Crystals, that kind of shit..
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Lived in the UK for about 8 months in 1991....had to come back to Melbourne due to work/mortgage.....but l never missed Melbourne for a minute......so if l was living in LOS, l think l would go back to Melbourne probably once every 2/3 years
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(i do love nyc too though)

NYC loves ya right back.

As much as I love NYC, these days I've been seriously thinking moving out to the west coast San Francisco Bay or San Diego Area just to try it out for a few years.
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i was wondering about you guys who live out in LOS. do you go back to your home much?

even if i lived over in LOS, id have to go home about 3-4 times a year.

Why!!

Only reason to go 'home' is family and business - other than that no desire to have to go through LHR or LGW - just being in the terminal is enough to remember why wanted to leave Blighty in the first place!
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Why!!

Only reason to go 'home' is family and business - other than that no desire to have to go through LHR or LGW - just being in the terminal is enough to remember why wanted to leave Blighty in the first place!


I fully agree, I last wen home 6 years ago for a 3 week holiday and was back here after 2 weeks, I felt like a tourist in my own country, plus have not lived there in 23 years so I don't consider it as home any more.
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NYC loves ya right back.

As much as I love NYC, these days I've been seriously thinking moving out to the west coast San Francisco Bay or San Diego Area just to try it out for a few years.

in my opinion, san diego is the best warm weather city in the states. absolutely love it
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Why!!

Only reason to go 'home' is family and business - other than that no desire to have to go through LHR or LGW - just being in the terminal is enough to remember why wanted to leave Blighty in the first place!

i guess we will have to disagee. i was just kinda interested and knew the responses i would get from alot the expats
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