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25-06-2006, 03:54
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Conundrum 4 U
You go for a massage at a massage shop in Soi Kepsap and the masseuse offers extras. You decline to f*ck her in the shop alongside the other grunting farang's and their girls but agree to come back later at 11pm when she finishes work so you can both go to your hotel room for the night (1000B).
You return at 11 and just as she is about to leave with you a farang bloke turns up, throws his arms around 'your' girl (whom he obviously knows well, ie a regular) and says he wants a 'massage'. Your girl follows him into the shop, looks at you apologetically and asks you to wait downstairs and watch TV for an hour while she goes upstairs (to f*uck) . What would you do now? 
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25-06-2006, 03:58
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Where's the conundrum? Are you seriously going to sit around while some bloke bounces around on your date and still take her out? It goes without saying that you are sharing girls to an extent, but jeez bloke there is no need to form a queue.
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25-06-2006, 04:15
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She would have to be a supermodel for me to wait..... There are lots of other girls... go find another one
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25-06-2006, 04:20
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Is this a hypothetical question bayleaf,as you seem to like asking a lot of questions here?
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25-06-2006, 04:27
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No Dawsey it's something which happened to me and I will say what I did in a later post. Asking questions?; it's just my way of contributing/being on the forum. Yes I like asking questions.
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25-06-2006, 04:55
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Go and get a soapy for an hour and come back.
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25-06-2006, 04:58
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Why bother tho...... Just go to a bar and get another girl for the night.....Unless she is super special
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25-06-2006, 05:01
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should have added that on.
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25-06-2006, 07:43
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Bayleaf this is not a conundrum and there is only one obvious answer, you turn round and walk out. There are no women here that are special enough to sit and wait for sloppy seconds, remember here that there is always a better one and she lubs you just the same.
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25-06-2006, 08:28
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Thing is tho there are a lot of nice girls in Thailand..... So still understanding (from a butterfly prospective) How waiting an hour for one bird when there are plenty more that are still rather nice is a conundrum.... For me as soon as i saw other guy..... Look out here i come (hopefully in both senses of the word  )
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25-06-2006, 09:38
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Bayleaf, no offense intended but you have the strangest way of interacting on this forum.. Somehow I cant recall anything you have said about yourself yet you have all these odd questions and now odd possible scenarios and situations..
Anyway above.. Wasnt she finishing work at xx time ?? So has she finished or not ?? Wait dont wait.. Leave dont leave.. Up to you..
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25-06-2006, 09:52
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Forget her
I think everyone would have encountered a situation like this. Everyone knows that when you take a girl there's a good chance she has quite a few regulars. Occasionally you get snubbed in favour of one of these "regulars" who are maybe paying more than you. This is fine by me. A lot of the time it's a case of what you don't know won't hurt you. But when you see it as in this situation it's a bit hard to take. I would tell her opportunity knocks once and go look elsewhere. By the way if this massage shop up the beach (west)end or eastern end of soi kebsup? Do you know the girls name? i happen to know a few of them down there.
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25-06-2006, 12:45
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You have to accept that many of the massage girls just like the BGs have regulars...I should know cos I'm one of them
 and even though it's close to closing time they are there to make money and won't pass up the chance for another quick 1000+ in their pocket particularly if it's with a guy she's seeing 2 or 3 times a month...she'll want to keep him "on her books"  Just accept it...they're no different to the BGs...they're in business. Anyway,that won't have been me that moved in on that occasion...I always go afternoons so I'm usually first of the day! Was in one a few days ago...the guy in the next cubicle can't have been enjoying his much....he was SNORING loudly for about 15 minutes 
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25-06-2006, 14:09
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I interact the way I know how and feel comfortable with (strange??!!), given that in 6 months of being a member of this forum I have had a certain amount of stick so don't feel like bringing my guard down too much with personal info. Don't think the above scenario is odd as it happened to me. She usually finished work at 12 and asked earlier in the evening to be allowed to go at 11 which was granted. Just seemed that when this other guy arrived it overode any other agreement and she went with him but expected me to wait. Last edited by bayleaf : 25-06-2006 at 14:11.
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25-06-2006, 14:22
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The massage shop was at the eastern end of the soi (rat u thit end). Opposite the bar at the 'V' in the road, on left if looking towards rat u thit direction. Had their own spirit house on the street outside the shop. Don't know her name but she was not so much pretty as horny looking, quite tall, long hair, very friendly grabs you off the street. Yes it was hard to take even though I knew it's just her job.
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25-06-2006, 14:36
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25-06-2006, 14:38
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PERSONALLY I WOULD HAVE GONE TO THE BARS AND FOUND ANOTHER GIRL AND COME BACK AND FCUK THE MASSEUR GIRL SOME OTHER TIME !!!!!!!!
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ROLL ON OCTOBER........
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25-06-2006, 16:57
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Have you given any thought as to why you have received a "certain amount of stick" during your 6months of being a member of this forum? LivinLOS has pretty much summed up the feeling of what is going on. Quote:
Most BMs here are pretty much an open book,myself included,so with regard to revealing personal info, its all been written in our posts. If I can offer a little advise to you,open up a little,contribute a little differently by giving us your LOS experiences,tips,info etc, instead of these odd questions. You have to understand that we have had in the past, a prolific poster who was posting in the same vein as yourself,and it got tiresome. He then went on to antagonise and disrupt the forum so much so he became a reviled member,and changed his forum name many times over. Eventually he was banned. I'm not saying for one minute this is a scenario for yourself,but you see what I'm getting at. People are wary of posters who only ask questions. I'm sure you have plenty of useful info and good stories you could share with us instead of these questions,so maybe its time to change tack and interact differently and become more accepted by the members here. This is just some friendly advise that I hope you will consider.
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25-06-2006, 17:08
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Dawsey you are right.... i have been a member of this forum well it says for over a year but really i did more reading before i started posting in march or something..... And i have only had 1 person that has ever ridiculed me (not mentioning names.... Not correct thing to do) And other than that beacause i have been open on here i have found that the few questions i have asked have gotten me a lot of positive responses..... Explain why you are asking these questions in detail and you will get more responses rather than.... Why are you asking this for.... The more you talk about your experiences.... You dont even need to tell people your name just a little bit about yourself and you will get a lot better feedback than what you are now.... And i dont mean to cause offence with that either
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25-06-2006, 17:34
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>>What would you do now?<<
What you would do shouldn't be any different to what you would do if the same scenario happened in a bar, which it can easily do. Happened to me few weeks ago...I'd been buying a girl drinks and sat with her about an hour, she agreed to come stay with me. Then another guy turns up, she apologises saying he's a "friend", asks me to wait while she goes and sits with him...half an hour later I'd had enough and just got up and left. Just move on....use them like they use us...there's 100s more want your baht.
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25-06-2006, 18:11
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What I did
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I declined the offer of sitting in the shop, went back to my hotel room thinking what to do and decided to go back but in my mind all the time the thought of that bloke and what might be left in her. Didn't want to stir the poridge. I arrived and she was now serving drinks to a few men and girls sitting round a table. She ushered me inside and said they are important customer so I can wait another half hour. Then she could see I wasn't happy, all the girls grouped together and suggested I tell her my hotel room and she would arrive later. So I said no, left, felt at least I have some self respect and went to another massage shop, Lamai Inn and had a massage afterwards went to her flat, an experience in itself just to see what conditions she lived in, woken up by a jackhammer pounding away from seven in the morning. I didn't go back to the massage girl because I didn't want to get f8cked over a second time and then took the Lamai Inn massage girl to MTB that night, 31 March/April 1st, then back to my room, but she wasn't all she had appeared (starfish) so that day I felt I needed to go somewhere else and went to Krabi. I guess the reason I ask a lot of questions is that I keep trying to sort out in my own mind how to go about things especially when I have a bad experience. In fact I find the whole tg thing very alluring but also feel out of my depth with them and as soon as they sense that I've had it. I seem to get better experiences just having a massage with extras and not trying to extend the 'relationship'. Plus I've got a bad habit of forming attachments very quickly to these girls. Last edited by bayleaf : 25-06-2006 at 18:17.
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25-06-2006, 18:15
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Exactly right. Just struggled with my emotions at the time to move on straight away.
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25-06-2006, 18:28
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With posts like that it makes it a lot easier for us all to relate to the experience and discuss it.. Its the hypothetical 'what if' tone that feels like questioning without wanting to give that makes people wary I think.. Quote:
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