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23-09-2006, 08:22
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Is It Just Me!
May-b its just me! but i`ve been home 3weeks now & i cant sleep a wink
 its affecting me big time  i just cant stop thinking about it! Now i`m no silly little boy, i`m old enough to know better (been there done that! )  but fcuk me! I read on the forum people going to los 5-6 times a year, ( now i cant afford that ) i honestly wish i`d never went ( not ) just so i wouldn`t have to suffer this pain................. , while writting this i`m listening to INXS: Baby Dont Cry & Beautiful Girl.............................................. .............. 
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23-09-2006, 08:37
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Its not only you mate.Should get better in a few month. If not visit your doctor ot the next travel agent
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23-09-2006, 08:45
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hellow,
Sorry for not introducing myself in the newbie thread. I am a woman and have been reading this forum for a while and I think what you are experiencing now is normal. I have been back in my home country for almost a year, but I still often feel sad and missing my host country for 1.5 year terribly. And bear in mind, although our experience is not the same (you went to LOS, I assume, for a holiday, short term --> <2 months? ; and I went abroad for study, 18 months), but I do think that we might experience the post-lovely times-syndrome, just almost the same as others do. Why don't you try to focus more on your job, set a goal that is feasible to fulfil what you want, instead of immersing yourself into the pain, and the sadness for leaving the holiday land? Last edited by eur11 : 23-09-2006 at 08:48.
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23-09-2006, 15:30
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Welcome eur11. Well, that's the number one problem. If I would be an employer, I would not allow my staff to go to Thailand. They never be the same again ;-) Quote:
Goal would be to get on the plane back asap.
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23-09-2006, 16:16
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You have been smitten
You have caught the bug.Everything in Edinburgh will now only seem normal instead of good.
 The only thing to do is to start planning your next trip - even if it is a year away.It is the planning that will take your mind of it. 
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23-09-2006, 16:42
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We'd all be knee-deep in unwanted paper clips sold to us by the world's most motivated sales team 
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23-09-2006, 17:31
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I do that. I started planning next trip to that lovely place soon as my feet touched the home country airport 
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23-09-2006, 17:37
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Thank you for your welcome..! Well... I have read many posts here and I have been amazed and amused a bit . Maybe because most of the active posters are men- surely most of the time, men think differently than women
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23-09-2006, 17:42
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Yes, but it's the Women who make these man crazy :-)
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23-09-2006, 17:46
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i know how you feel mate...makes me sad when i read on here they guys having such a good time in los while im stuck in dreary london. also happy for them at the same time tho. remember one thing tho...thailand aint going nowhere ...it will still be there for your next trip!
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23-09-2006, 17:58
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GEORGE.........YOU GOTTA REMEMBER........EVERY DOG HAS HIS DAY.....YOUR DAY IS NOT FAR AWAY........555555555...........IJ
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23-09-2006, 17:59
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WELCOME TO THE BOARD. IJ
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23-09-2006, 18:00
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oh yes, I believe that. .. Just remember that a man and a woman (who are lovers) could head to a different destinations without anyone realises what is going on, when there is communication barrier... Last edited by eur11 : 23-09-2006 at 18:06.
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23-09-2006, 18:48
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Okay, had to re-read this a couple of times until, I think, got what you ment. Although this applies to all relationships and is already not easy, guess it's even more difficult if there are culture differences in play i.e. Western/Thai relationship. Expectations head different destinations if your not able to communicate properly. I know, good topic and I'll do my very best. In addition to possible language barriers, there's also the need to "read & understand" non-verbal behaviour. Wow, what a challenge... ;-)
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23-09-2006, 18:56
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aha.. I see now that I made few grammatical mistakes in the post, that might have caused some confusions. English is not my first language, although that doesn't stop me from doing my best to speak and write English properly and correctly. Apologise for that Yes, I think you are right..It happens and applies to ALL relationships, but ones with cultural and language differences are with more challenges... Last edited by eur11 : 23-09-2006 at 18:58.
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23-09-2006, 19:08
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ARE YOU FROM INDONESIA? IJ
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23-09-2006, 19:09
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No need to apologise, it's not you -> but me. I suffer a bit from "newsboard-dislectia", but it's getting better
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23-09-2006, 19:13
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Cheers M8, just wish there was something i could take 2 tide me over till my next vist & if there`s any justice " i`l win this £15 million " on the lotto 2night  & i`l b on the next available flight back 2 Heaven...... 
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23-09-2006, 19:36
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NICE ONE !!!!!!! WHAT DID YOU STUDY?
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