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27-10-2006, 21:07
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Don't know...or Don't care?
This might be a bit controversial but what the hell...
For me personally if I see a nice girl in a bar/club/wherever and I like her I will make the usual 'contact' to see if SHE is interested in ME (weather genuine or not I don't want a one-way thing as I don't get anything out of it). Now, maybe I am just noticing this more but I see a few guys aggresively pursuing the girls, grabbing, pulling them close when the girls are obviously resisting and in some cases repulsed. So I ask... Do they not see it or do they not care?
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27-10-2006, 21:14
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Most guys like the illusion that a girl actually likes them and isn't disgusted in having to sleep with them later (as most of them are).
I suppose some guys just aren't bothered with that, hence just seeing and treating the girls as meat they will pay for, rather than humans.
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27-10-2006, 21:21
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Good Tread Rob...
I Suppose At The End Of The Day The Girl Wants Her Baht........ I Like To Smile And Make The Eye Contact As Well........5555...... Its Nice If The Guy Is Good To Them And Makes The Effort To Chase Her......but I Suppose If A Guy Is Allover Her And Being Aggressive She Still Has To Go With Them....... Its All About The Money........
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27-10-2006, 21:30
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No, she dont have to. I also saw a case Hobbsy mentioned recently and she dont go with him, he drop by everyday but she just ignore him.
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27-10-2006, 21:31
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Probably both... Some guys see all girls over in LOS as available and then can't take no for an answer. Selfishness and bad mannered.
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27-10-2006, 21:34
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MAYBE SHE WAS A PRETTY ONE AND KNEW SHE WOULD HAVE NO BOTHER GETTING A CUSTOMER WHEN SHE WENT TO THE DISCO ......AND THATS WHY SHE REFUSED........ IJ
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27-10-2006, 21:41
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Well, as I said, they refuse and dont go if they dont like somebody, ofcourse. One of my barowner friends had a problem lately, a guy get aggressive because all his girls refused to go with him, because they know he is a bad guy.
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27-10-2006, 21:44
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Also some guys have no class whatsoever.. Not unusual to make a grab at a girl and not take a no.. Even mistakenly making a unsublt grab at a guys GF by mistake and pushing it..
The way I see it is probably guys with zero social skills..
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27-10-2006, 21:57
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Had a situation like that as well, the problem is that some guys believe the girl has to go with them. Almost physically threw a guy old one night when he was demanding that a girl went with him, because he was buying her for the night she had to do what he wanted. He just didnt understand, that once he raised his voice and starting acting like a moron, no girl would even sit with him.
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27-10-2006, 22:15
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Add some kee-maow and you get the ingredients for a bar fight. The TanMan
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27-10-2006, 22:21
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At last the BGs; FLs and Massage ladies have the choice as to whether they go and "service" a customer whereas the ones in brothels or even Christins for that matter do not. Must be awful for them sometimes when a 30-stone cigar smoking sweaty foreigner choses them. I suppose they aretrained to lie back and think of Issan.
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27-10-2006, 22:26
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I think a lot of these morons dont relise that money 'handed over' or not, the girl has the right to refuse any advance and that refusal has to be honoured.
Sorry but pushing it at the wrong time is tantamount to attempted rape...It would be a bad idea to try it in Europe or the States. There is no substitute for being charming, polite and generally nice. It works wonders. Show a bit of real interest and its suprising how much better they respond.
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27-10-2006, 22:29
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Some guys just don't get it. I never grab a lady improperly in public. Might fool around with them, dance a little, share a few drinks with them but that is it. If I see a girl that I like I always ask her if she would like a drink and if she accepts I usually sit with her for a while. If she says no, well there are probably only another 1,000 or so unoccupied ladies that will catch my eye even at 2PM still walking around. Got turned down a couple of times and just walked away, no use in making a scene.
I think some of these guys have a go go mentality, where they think that they can grab anybody that they want to and forget that they aren't in a closed bar or go go but are in an open air bar with 20 other bars nearby. The ladies might have to be there to make money but that does not mean that they have to go with the first guy that shows any interest in them. And if the guy is a jerk than hopefully they won't be forced to go with him. I am on a Pattaya forum also and there are lots of pictures of guys grabbing ladies improperly. Lots of pictures of guys feeling up the ladies. Well hopefully some of these guys will learn but I do not think so. And LIL is correct., I think they lack a lot of social skills, just do not know how to act with the opposite sex and probably do not have a lot of male friends either.
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27-10-2006, 22:51
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Don't know...or Don't care?
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Sounds like a person with a name who starts at F 
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27-10-2006, 23:04
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If I have to pull and push and grab and maul a girl in public then in my own self esteem I have failed and become something I know I would never be proud of and wouldn't want to look at in the mirror. I'm just not like that.
I always get a kick when the majority of the girls who leave me in the morning tell me......."Mr D, you have a good heart".........and no, they are not saying it for an extra buck or two. I never normally go with the same girl twice but can hold my head up in the street when I am walking along with a new girl and bump into someone I may have taken back to my room before. I have never had a 'dirty' look or a sneer. If some prat who couldn't handle his ale started to molest the girl I was with and I couldn't diffuse the situation by either moving on calmly or trying to be rational then I would drop him! To me, the girls are to be treasured, I enjoy them for 'who' they are, not for 'what' they are. If she says no (and I couldn't give a toss about the reason) then no it is.....I move on...........I don't normally go home alone.
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27-10-2006, 23:12
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WOULD THERE BE 3 OF THEM...........55555555555.................IJ
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27-10-2006, 23:13
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27-10-2006, 23:33
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Yea I have to say my two weeks in Patong I saw a lot of crude behaviour from some overly aggressive men a various bars. Couldn’t quite understand why the girls put up with that crap. And yes I was turned down (think more of a face thing with another friend I had rejected) but still a blow to your ego…just moved on.
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27-10-2006, 23:35
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no shame in that mate..i get turned down at least once every nite..........as you say........just move on to the next chick.. ij
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28-10-2006, 00:18
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havn't been turned down yet.
 always let them come to me. Too many to go chasing em Bad new if you have to try by force to get one to go with ya 
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28-10-2006, 00:31
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I had the opposite problem when I used to go Tai Pan disco.
Could not get through a crowd to the bar or to leave without being groped at least 5 times, I felt just like a cheap piece of meat I can tell ya 
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