farang and email

[fun2have]

back up at my wifes house, and relaxing just watching the world go by.

a farang was introduced at the house, he was bought to the house by a pattaya bg from my wifes village.

unfortuneately for this farang he was the 2nd to think he was "special", to be invited to his "gfs" village, this week.

the 3rd is coming at the end of the month, oh, well i keep the secret now, and my lack of moral problem with this does not seem to trouble me.

if that is good or bad i dont know ?

to me now, it is just bgs and the games they play, and how fortuneate i am that bullshit they play doesnt affect me or my wife.

nice to be an outsider looking in.

a girl visited, the house later in the day, she had been at the local internet cafe and had left the pc, for her nephew to use the remaining time to play online games, but she had forgotten to log off her farang busy email accounts, and a malicious mia farang from the village, just forwarded some emails to all users, so "paul, mark, fred,sven, erik, jack, etc" now know they all loved and not alone in this world.

oh village politics continue, and all i could say about this, to the offended girl, was that she plays a game and sometimes it goes wrong.

oh, how good it is to be back, i am starting to put the effort in to learning the issan language, those hours spent back in oz just studying the books is paying off.

[stevem]

It is interesting to just sit back and watch the goings on. Sometimes you even the guy knows he is being taken for a ride, but he still keeps on going with it. Some guys just dont listen, or I guess don't want to listen.

Enjoy your stay up country.

[slinggalin]

Was funny I caught this girl forwarding me emails with pictures of her that her other boyfriends had taken of her and the previous threads still had their names attached to them with both saying "I Love You" on them,...

I told her that I really didn't care, but don't semd me used emails. At least send me authentic ones and not ones u you get and recieve from other guys..

Get got wise. At least now I get new emails or at least emails with the previous threads erased

555

[fun2have]

Originally Posted by stevem

It is interesting to just sit back and watch the goings on. Sometimes you even the guy knows he is being taken for a ride, but he still keeps on going with it. Some guys just dont listen, or I guess don't want to listen.

Enjoy your stay up country.

thanks stevem, it is good just to be sitting here, and, since it is high season, will no doubt see more farang enter the den

i dont need much up here to enjoy myself, a few leos, a trip to town now and then, and a slight modicum of the language.

[Latino4life]

Last night I got a text msg from new teerak (now ex-teerak) asking me to send money for her to pay the room 555555555 The question popped exactly 3 weeks after I came home. The thing is that she should have plenty of money left or at least to last awhile longer We did talk about sponsering but she wasn't familiar with the famous western union which somehow makes me think she was either pretending or she's being coached.

Deep down I knew it would come to this and was waiting for some possible breaking news from her (most probably you won't understand the "breaking news" part), but it seems it's cool and I'm not bound to further responsabilities.

I guess I'm wiser now coz I won't go the sponsorship road again at least not as long there is any reason for me to suspect a hidden boyfriend and a game thingie.

Geeez, it took me a year to learn this, 1 mistake plus lots of advice from LOS old hands 55555555 Hmmmm maybe soon I'll learn how to keep it short time and not making the same mistake of spending an entire trip with one girl over and over...

OK then, I guess a split Pattaya-BKK trip is in order, as I've been reading there are lots of interesting places. Mars/April sounds as a good date.

Cheers

[StaffsShot]

So the question is, how do you know you`ve got an honest one who has really left the bar world behind, now she`s met you ?
Answer is, if her lips are moving she`s lying. Or is she ?

[Mav]

Originally Posted by Latino4life

Deep down I knew it would come to this and was waiting for some possible breaking news from her (most probably you won't understand the "breaking news" part), but it seems it's cool and I'm not bound to further responsabilities.

Thought u were gunna be a daddy hey

[landofsmiles]

I get asked to help with emails to sponsors sometimes. It's not easy trying to write in BG speak so they won't suspect she's being helped The most common plea for money is the family member is sick in hospital and she needs money to help with the hospital bills. One girl was even sending pics of an old woman in her hospital bed.

[Latino4life]

Originally Posted by Mav

Thought u were gunna be a daddy hey

Heeey buddy you understood the "breaking news" part 555555555

Well there was that possibility unless I'm shooting blanks but madame fortune smiled at me once again and nope I'm not gonna be a daddy 555555

[StaffsShot]

Originally Posted by landofsmiles

I get asked to help with emails to sponsors sometimes. It's not easy trying to write in BG speak so they won't suspect she's being helped The most common plea for money is the family member is sick in hospital and she needs money to help with the hospital bills. One girl was even sending pics of an old woman in her hospital bed.

Only yesterday an e-mail i received was in part " have to do very ting by my self so you dont very about this ok all the time need only money is not good " Not yours was it Landofsmiles ? 55555

[Icebox]

I actually have one of my ex bgs email passwords it makes funny reading , i have to say though ive become real cynical since ive comeback from los as ive done lots of reading and stuff.... 4 me it feels like the best option is to play and pay then walk away

its easy to get a little atttached but i think this can become more dangerous , the lines of sanity and common reason seem to get very fuzzy and blurred very quickly at least for me anyway

[slinggalin]

Originally Posted by tas1

I actually have one of my ex bgs email passwords it makes funny reading , i have to say though ive become real cynical since ive comeback from los as ive done lots of reading and stuff.... 4 me it feels like the best option is to play and pay then walk away

its easy to get a little atttached but i think this can become more dangerous , the lines of sanity and common reason seem to get very fuzzy and blurred very quickly at least for me anyway

There ya go....

[JayBee]

Originally Posted by Latino4life

I guess I'm wiser now coz I won't go the sponsorship road again at least not as long there is any reason for me to suspect a hidden boyfriend and a game thingie.

Geeez, it took me a year to learn this, 1 mistake plus lots of advice from LOS old hands

Don't feel bad! Took me 3 trips and more than 2 years to learn.

But I have to say the downside of wising up is that it was so much more fun and excitement when I actually was so naive that I believed all their stories.

Guess it is sometimes true what they say, "Ignorance is bliss!"

[fun2have]

bloody roosters, fighting cats, barking dogs have woken me so here is a non-exciting incident from the other day.

i sat at a farang resturant in town alone, my wife is extremely uncomfortable in these places, so she was off at the market and buying somethings to take to oz.

this fellow arrived with his girl and her sister/cousin and sat next to me and introduced himself, (long term farangs up here seem slow to do that, for reasons i dont know)

i greeted them and exchange pleasantries in english.
the farang then ran into a diatribe about how he was going to marry the younger of the girls, and all about what a good family she was from (father a senior policeman etc).

his main concern, was that he was to overstay his visa one day, and his desire to keep his passport "clean", so i explained to him about doing a visa extension, at the immigration service office which operates out of the local hospital.

the farangs english was limited, and i did not want to make a mistake in thai/issan explaining to his female friends, so i thought, i will call my wife and get her to explain in full flowing issan to his lady friends about the process and location.

so my wife mustered her strength and came to the resturant,english to the farang, issan pleasantries to the girls and me and a discussion of what she had bought in issan language to me , the look on the other girls faces changed.

the smiles went from their faces, and their previously confident body language closed.
i told my wife in issan, that the centre of the farangs attention was the daughter of a senior policeman.
my wifes face lit up, and the issan started at level i could not follow, more than 2 words in 10.(yangs and doks etc)

then my wife quickly stopped talking, looked at me and said in issan it was time to go back to the village, and quick.

so i said good bye to the other people (my wife said nothing to any), and departed, wondering why the reasons behind my wifes sudden desire to leave, i know she dislikes farangs venues, but this departure was very rapid.

in the truck, she told that the girl was a liar, and that the girls father was not a policeman, but a volunteer village policeman.
she said she felt pity for the farang as the girl would lie much to him, and that she did not want to hear more lies.

[geespot]

Originally Posted by fun2have

thanks stevem, it is good just to be sitting here, and, since it is high season, will no doubt see more farang enter the den

i dont need much up here to enjoy myself, a few leos, a trip to town now and then, and a slight modicum of the language.

I shall be in Isaan very shortly!

Ive got my DMax so driving aint a problem. It would be good to look you up!

you are Udon or nong kai area? Whats the name of the village?

PM me if u want

cheers

G

[geespot]

Originally Posted by fun2have

bloody roosters, fighting cats, barking dogs have woken me so here is a non-exciting incident from the other day.

i sat at a farang resturant in town alone, my wife is extremely uncomfortable in these places, so she was off at the market and buying somethings to take to oz.

this fellow arrived with his girl and her sister/cousin and sat next to me and introduced himself, (long term farangs up here seem slow to do that, for reasons i dont know)

i greeted them and exchange pleasantries in english.
the farang then ran into a diatribe about how he was going to marry the younger of the girls, and all about what a good family she was from (father a senior policeman etc).

his main concern, was that he was to overstay his visa one day, and his desire to keep his passport "clean", so i explained to him about doing a visa extension, at the immigration service office which operates out of the local hospital.

the farangs english was limited, and i did not want to make a mistake in thai/issan explaining to his female friends, so i thought, i will call my wife and get her to explain in full flowing issan to his lady friends about the process and location.

so my wife mustered her strength and came to the resturant,english to the farang, issan pleasantries to the girls and me and a discussion of what she had bought in issan language to me , the look on the other girls faces changed.

the smiles went from their faces, and their previously confident body language closed.
i told my wife in issan, that the centre of the farangs attention was the daughter of a senior policeman.
my wifes face lit up, and the issan started at level i could not follow, more than 2 words in 10.(yangs and doks etc)

then my wife quickly stopped talking, looked at me and said in issan it was time to go back to the village, and quick.

so i said good bye to the other people (my wife said nothing to any), and departed, wondering why the reasons behind my wifes sudden desire to leave, i know she dislikes farangs venues, but this departure was very rapid.

in the truck, she told that the girl was a liar, and that the girls father was not a policeman, but a volunteer village policeman.
she said she felt pity for the farang as the girl would lie much to him, and that she did not want to hear more lies.

Interesting stuff!

Is your wife moving to aus with you?

If she doesnt like farang venues? Do you think she will handle living in Aus?

G

[palaceboy]

Originally Posted by tas1

I actually have one of my ex bgs email passwords it makes funny reading , i have to say though ive become real cynical since ive comeback from los as ive done lots of reading and stuff.... 4 me it feels like the best option is to play and pay then walk away

its easy to get a little atttached but i think this can become more dangerous , the lines of sanity and common reason seem to get very fuzzy and blurred very quickly at least for me anyway

My story is quite similar, I have the password for the girls E-mail, so when I got one of the usual mails about her need for money for her sick mother my reply was politely to tell her that I was short of money, and I did suggest that she tried one of her other "friends".
Her reply was that I was the only one she knew, my reply was what about and I came up with a list of names from her E-mail site, no more talk about money, the next mail I received was to advise me of her new E-mail address, very smart of her she knew that I had been on her old mail address.
Now I have her new address, but she kept the old password, very smart I can now access her new mail site.

[stevem]

Originally Posted by palaceboy

Now I have her new address, but she kept the old password, very smart I can now access her new mail site.

Sorry I have a problem with guys who think its OK it access someone elses personal email, doesnt matter if they are a BG or whatever. And then to seemingly brag about it on a public forum

Its an invasion of privacy, what if it was the other way around, you would be totally pissed.

No respect.

[marc26]

Originally Posted by stevem

Sorry I have a problem with guys who think its OK it access someone elses personal email, doesnt matter if they are a BG or whatever. And then to seemingly brag about it on a public forum

Its an invasion of privacy, what if it was the other way around, you would be totally pissed.

No respect.

i agree totally
i set up my gf's e-mail for her
i told her the screenname and passowrd i chose and told her to change password
i will guarantee you 100% she hasnt changed it but i wouldnt know because i wouldnt dare go into her e-mail

[MrDK]

Originally Posted by stevem

Its an invasion of privacy

Agree. Simple as that.

[Mav]

Originally Posted by marc26

i will guarantee you 100% she hasnt changed it but i wouldnt know because i wouldnt dare go into her e-mail

That must take a lot of will power Paul..........l'd say IMO there would be a small minority who wouldn't.........full credit to you.